Would you get jealous?

[Anonymous]

I was sort of talking to a guy from my gym - its just sexual but we mostly text. we haven't done anything as he is a virgin. But guys at the gym literally follow me around and flirt with me. so far 9 guys have talked to me infront of him within a month. He always backs out when we are gonna so sexual stuff so i called him out on it, then when i tried again he sort of cut me off. I saw him at the gym and another guy kept talking to me and helping me with my workout, racking my plates and all. He was there the whole time just working out but he could also see us. Do you think hed be jealous even tho he is the one who backed out? or do guys not care about girls like that when its sexual only?

[Billlewis]

Do I think he's jealous? Are you kidding? Of *course* he's jealous -- and you've got an excellent opportunity here. You can have sex with any guy at the gym, while you're keeping your virgin guy friend a virgin! If I were in your position, that's exactly what I'd do:)

[Asker]

But I dont like those guys haha. I like this one and he's always just talking dirty and never coming through with it! he won't even kiss me! how can a guy who doesn't wanna kiss me be jealous :(((

[Billlewis]

I understand, but I still think you should at least keep him as a virgin as long as possible.

[Asker]

He won't even kiss me and he doesn’t come up to me in person!

[Asker]

so weird

[Billlewis]

Alright, that tells you all you need to know -- I think you should do everything in your power to prick tease him every chance you get -- and don't feel sorry for him one bit -- just keep teasing him. Years from now, he'll be so grateful to you for doing this to him.

[Asker]

Do you have any ideas on how? Because he stopped replying to my texts now. He does look at me sometimes ay the gym thats all. But he left 2 of my texts on read so i dont wanna approach him i look so bad already.

[Billlewis]

Depending on what kind of outfit you usually wear when you go to the gym, consider wearing something that will accentuate the parts of your body that he has an attraction for. If you think he's a 'butt' guy, surreptitiously wiggle your butt when you're walking past him, and if you really want to make him play with himself frantically when he gets home, have a fake phone conversation with your girlfriend, and while you're pretending to talk to her, tell her that you just spent the night with a guy you met recently, and that you just experienced the most incredible sex you've ever dreamed of, and be very effusive and aroused when you're telling her about it. You're welcome to message me if you'd like to discuss this in greater detail.

[Asker]

Aha okay! I can do the clothing part. I just dont wanna make him think I sleep around. I followed you! shoot me a message!

[Billlewis]

You have to return to your original sign on name.

[Lokiion]

Me personally I wouldn’t get jealous what there to get jealous about I’m assuming he talked to you first and now other men are doing the same and it’s not like you gave the other guys you’re number or anything but that’s just me I’ve always been nonchalant with most things he on the other hand is not so more then likely he is jealous or he just lost interest in you one or the other.

[JesseP1nk]

He was intimated by those guys. If you wanna keep this guy then do not play silly games. Tell other guys to leave you alone. I know you are girl and like attention but he is gonna walk away if you dont show her no effort back.

[Asker]

The thing is I show a lot of effort but he doesn't. He gets really turned on sometimes calls me sexy and stuff and will talk dirty and all but when we make plans he flops! I don't know if he's really intimidated by me or what it is…… but i should mention I dated a guy a long time ago and this is his little brother smh maybe thats it LOL

[JesseP1nk]

You date your ex´s younger brother? Sorry but thats bit weird. If its gonna develope to something bigger then its gonna be really awkward

[Alex-Snow]

U need to see ur "guy friend" outside of the gym environment when it is only the two of you. Are u sexually attracted to him?

[Asker]

He doesn’t see me though he always flops! and im soooooo attracted to him its insane

[Alex-Snow]

Just ask him out for coffee or something. Are u sure he does not have a girlfriend or wife?

[Asker]

He cut me off sort of so i dont wanna message again and embarrass myself… he doesn't have a girlfriend or wife but i dated his brother before so i think he's being weird bc of it

[Alex-Snow]

I don't think u would embarrass yourself

[Asker]

I messaged him twice and he left it on seen:/

[Alex-Snow]

How old is this guy?

[Asker]

he's 20!

[Alex-Snow]

Well maybe he just does not want a relationship right now. I'm sure he would love sex like any guy our age.

[Asker]

we agreed to only be sexual but he still flopped everytime and then started leaving my messages on seen…. he's so odd

[Alex-Snow]

He must like jerking off instead of sex I guess

[Asker]

Hopefully to me😂

[Alex-Snow]

U can only hope I guess. Are u his age also?

[Asker]

Im older than him! can you send me a private message i followed u

[Alex-Snow]

Will do thanks

[B4851]

He's probably jealous. But he doesn't know what to do about it.

[RavVid]

We normally strongly care when it is sexual.

[BigDog1989]

Why are you trying to make him jealous?

[Asker]

I just wanna know if he likes me because he cut me off and he was there when the other guy was doing it. idkkk maybe itll wake some feelings or something

[BigDog1989]

I don't get why you're trying to make him jealous