My boyfriend said he isn't the jealous type and that he won't get jealous whatever I would do? Do you believe that he isn't jealous?

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He said that even if you cheated on me i would not get jealous. I don't believe him though 😂..

I mean yeah it's great that he trusts me but, if i cheated on him ( which i would never do) how the hell he would not get jealous? Is it weird that he doesn't get jealous that much?

I tested him yesterday by saying i find a dude from College attractive ( which I don't lol) to see if he would get jealous he kind of seemed awkward but didn't show that he was jealous 😂 maybe i am not good at lying? But I really don't understand why he would never get jealous!!! I mean it's cute when guys are just a but jealous, when they aren't it's not fun!! Girls as well.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

I cannot know for sure whether or not your boyfriend is telling the truth about not being the jealous type. However, it's important to take his words at face value and trust that he is being honest with you.

It's also important to remember that jealousy is not a healthy or productive emotion in a relationship. While it's natural to feel some jealousy from time to time, it's important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner about your feelings and work together to build trust and security in the relationship.

If you're feeling unsure or uncomfortable about your boyfriend's lack of jealousy, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with him about your concerns. Remember to approach the conversation from a place of respect and understanding, and to listen to his perspective as well.

Ultimately, the most important thing is to build a relationship based on mutual trust, respect, and communication. With open and honest communication, you can work together to build a healthy and fulfilling relationship.

Based on what you've shared, it doesn't sound like your boyfriend is the jealous type. However, it's important to remember that everyone expresses emotions differently, and it's possible that your boyfriend may feel jealous but not show it outwardly.

It's also important to recognize that jealousy can be a negative and destructive emotion in a relationship, and it's not necessarily a sign of love or passion. A healthy and fulfilling relationship is built on trust, respect, and open communication, rather than jealousy or possessiveness.

If you're feeling unsure or uncomfortable about your relationship, it may be helpful to have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your concerns. Remember to approach the conversation from a place of respect and understanding, and to listen to his perspective as well. With open and honest communication, you can work together to build a relationship that feels right for both of you.

Miristheiss · Accepted Answer

That doesn't sound natural.

Too jealous can be bad but zero jealousy? That just sounds like he doesn't give a shit about you at all. How much does he care if he doesn't give a shit what you do? If he is crazy about you he wouldn't want to share you with another guy.

Here is the only way I can understand a good working non jealousy. You do get jealous but you do not stay jealous. Meaning you dump girls that do things that make you jealous. If she goes clubbing and you do not like it... dump her. If she cheats dump her. If she does Onlyfans you dump her. You are jealous you just get rid of her and the jealousy is gone. You do not stay together always arguing over these issues.

petitedollbabee · Accepted Answer

It shows maturity. Mature people don’t get jealous, they just move on. If you cheat on him or if you go on & on to him about how attractive other guys are, all you’re going to do is make his feelings for you die. He’ll likely view it as you no longer being interested in him if you’re being interested in other people.

WhitneySnow · Accepted Answer

He trusts you. That’s a good thing. He can’t imagine you ever cheating on him. You guys are good together.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Everytime I've heard someone say something like that; they've always turned out to be the most bat shit insane people you could possibly imagine.

That said... that's also something I would say, and I'm genuinely not a jealous person at all, so I'm sure there are other people out there who would mean it as well.

AmeerX · Answer

If someone is that chill about cheating then something is definitely wrong with him. It's like saying, hey if my someone stole something from me I will not file a complaint to the police.

You need to sort this out as if he dearly loves you he is expected to be protective of you and expect some level of reciprocation.
How long are you two in the relationship because it seems really odd to say something like this

Paul_in_Indy · Answer

I don’t know. We should find out. You and I can make out…and we will see how he reacts. It’s for science.

AngryCarl2 · Answer

From all you've said here your boyfriend sounds like a decent guy. I wouldn't play these kind of games with him if I were you. I assume what he meant about not getting jealous is that he would simply dump you and move on, which is what any normal guy would do.

bowenw · Answer

In my opinion if he loves you he's going to feel something if it appears you are attracted to another person.

Billlewis · Answer

What could he possibly have to worry about, much less be jealous of? He's dating one of the most beautiful and desirable women in the world, which is another way of saying that he's a total god. I know this probably sounds strange, but if I had an opportunity to get his autograph, I probably would.. lol

PatriceONeal · Answer

You shouldn't be doing things that would make him jealous if you really "love" him.
If he really isn't jealous than he doesn't care about you.
Or he could be saying he doesn't get jealous to make himself look cool for you.

KostasKouvalis · Answer

Hard to know without actually knowing him, but in my personal opinion, either he's lying or he doesn't cars about your relationship as much as you do. Or, he has a cuckhold fantasy 😂

AydenHazor · Answer

It may be that he doesn't get jealous but that if you were to chat on him he's just leave you instead. Jealousy ears away at a relationship, so it's good that he's secure in it

Marked_Man · Answer

He's telling a fib. When you have a beautiful girlfriend, even the most confident guy is going to get a bit jealous and insecure.

Molly1997 · Answer

I don't know but I also don’t experience jealousy in my relationship , just don’t have that emotion. Maybe it’s because I trust and love him completely.

MrCommodore · Answer

It's wrong to purposely try to make him jealous (Can be ared flag to some guys), but also sounds worrying that he wouldn't get jealous if you actually cheated on him.

serious · Answer

He won't leave you even if you cheat on him? That is just stupidity and he lacks self respect. Seriously.. A man not having the power to walk away means he has no self respect. He has no self worth.

Berethor · Answer

Is he trying to show that he feminist or something? and jealousy is showing that a guy care.

spartan55 · Answer

Nothing about jealousy is good. Your boyfriend gets that and is mature in that sense.

Notsoshyguy1985 · Answer

This man is a direct descendant of Alexander the Great Confident, Strong and a conqueror.

AviatorTom · Answer

He's either kidding himself or he doesn't respect you. You decide which it is.

megabamse · Answer

A small amount of jealous is normal if a situation is a bit off

soe11 · Answer

I agree with him, because some men are saying true.

Adaeva · Answer

He is not jealous because you are only good enough for sex.

My boyfriend said he isn't the jealous type and that he won't get jealous whatever I would do? Do you believe that he isn't jealous?

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