It doesn’t seem like he gets jealous, does that mean he don’t care?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend of three years says he isn’t a jealous type but I am so I think he just says it to balance us out anyways. He said he doesn’t want me cooking for other people like guy co workers I don't know how that’s not jealous lol and he also says comments on guy friends I have. Anyways, I told him a guy hit on me and he said “don’t give dudes your number” I told him I have a boyfriend “ Dudes don’t care” anyways so he never asked me about that guy again. I asked him and he said that he trusts me and blah blah that mean he don’t care?

[spartan55]

So, you've been together three years and you are still trying to make him jealous? Really? THEN, you double down on your game after your boyfriend dropped it. That's the type of shit guys HATE, trust me. No one cares how many guys hit on you, especially your boyfriend.
Girls tend to have a real warped way of 'getting him to care' etc. What you did is a great way to piss him off because of your ridiculous insecurities. Do you really want him to 'show he cares' by turning into a jealous asshole? Ask some girls with some jealous boyfriends how rosy things are.

[Danny_dan92]

If you’re purposely trying to get him jealous that’s toxic af. In my opinion, that being said yes and no.


Jealousy is a sign that a person cares, but that doesn’t mean that if a person doesn’t get jealous that they don’t care either.


Since jealousy often comes with immaturity, the same way doing things to try and make your s/o jealous is immature

[kylee2437]

Why do you want your boyfriend acting possessive and over the top? He has trust for you that you deleted that guys number and that’s the conversation. Girl, I’ve had a controlling , abusive , overly jealous boyfriend and I promise you, you don’t want that. Your boyfriends response was perfect. He stated how he felt without going overboard.

[tanvishah123]

He just wants to be cool infront of you but obviously he's a little jealous he won't admit it though

[Honesttguy]

He said he trust you and what you take from that is he doesn't care? Are you absolutely mental? Wake up

[Surely]

You are mistaking trust for not caring!

Just don’t keep saying things to add fuel to the fire!

[In_Trance]

not necessarily