Girls, I have a guy friendthat I love and he knows that I love him so I had been to his home and spent the night in his room?

[Anonymous]

• He likes to hug and sleep so that night he pulled me close and my shirt was a bit up while I was sleeping he held my waist and took his hand up and I took his hand out of my shirt and held and slept if he doesn't have feelings for me why would he do that and I let him cross the boundary for which I kind of feel guilty we never had a talk about it

[SueShe]

OK, he is a guy, you are a girl, he has a level of testosterone that is uncontrollable, you would like him to reciprocate your feelings, he does not yet he puts his hands where he wants them to be.

In other words, you were hoping for something to happen. It did happen yet you pushed him away. You are more than just confusing him.

Why do you feel guilty for something that you actually wanted to happen? Otherwise, why would you even go to his bedroom? You clearly indicated that you were up to it yet you gave him conflicting signals.

[Asker]

I go to his house a lot and often used to hangout with him and his roommate who was also my friend but I heard him tell his girlfriend that if i am around he doesn't get personal space with this guy so I had been to his house to talk about it and it was late so decided to stay

[EmmaMary]

So you didn't let him give you a damn good fucking? Missed opportunity!

[Asker]

I thought it was inappropriate as we were friends and I don't know if he like me or not

[EmmaMary]

The opportunity you had would have been a damn good test to have found out.

[Asker]

But if he doesn't have feelings for me do you think he was just testing me

[EmmaMary]

You say he had his hand up your shirt and held your waist... Just what more signs/signals do you need?

[Asker]

He pulls away from me doesn't text me or ask me to meet just a few months ago we were very close met every weekend went out he used to text me

[EmmaMary]

For fuck's sake use the tongue in your head and actually Talk to him. smh

[Asker]

Yess

[EmmaMary]

Thank you for the MHO.

[SarahP080106]

Sounds like you freaked out when you both wanted fun.

[Anonymous]

If I spend the night with a guy I expect his hand to be up my shirt, at least.

[Anonymous]

Well don’t get in the bed with a man if you’re not interested in him , could send the wrong message.

[Nikki1989]

Really, that was it, nothing more?

[Asker]

No I would never let any guy this close to me