If a guy coworker touches you in the shoulder does he like you?

[Anonymous]

this is at after work drinks. He didn’t do it to anyone else just me.

[Shiprex]

Possibly but maybe not as a relationship possibility. Shoulders may be just to get your attention and "lay claim" to you which would suggest he may be trying to indicate to you that he's wanting something from you.

[soe11]

• May be or thanking to you treatment of times.
• All depending on context.

[Asker]

He was about to leave and then he walked past me and our group and then he did that. I wasn’t talking to him though,

[soe11]

You know more then me so you can judgement is stronger.

[beefcakebradybatson]

Maybe, but tell him to respect your physical boundaries and space.

[Asker]

Yeah I was a bit surprised as he’s never done that before

[beefcakebradybatson]

Make sure he doesn't do it again sans your permission.

[Asker]

Ok thanks

[slatyb]

Most likely he does. Do you like him?

[Asker]

You reckon? Yes I do

[slatyb]

Ask him to coffee or lunch or whatever.

[Asker]

Yeah ok will do. Why do you think he was tactile?