Why do man ghost you?

[Anonymous]

so my (20f) new boyfriend (30m) ghosted me for straight 4 days. no phone calls, no texts. we are together for almost a month. now he has started to call again. he says was busy but that doesn't seem like a reason. he wasn't mad at me for any reason.

[Anonymous]

Because you’re not that important to him for none. More than likely he’s seeing someone else besides you. Unless he was in a car accident, family died or something tragic, there’s no reason someone is so busy that they can’t text or call. Especially these days. I understand when I was younger we didn’t have cellphones, but now they’re pretty much everywhere. Even an email would have been better than nothing. So unless it was for any of those reasons o don’t see why someone couldn’t reach out. Even a quick, sorry I’ve been really busy. I’m not ignoring you. Just give me sometime to get back to you. I remember in ‘98 when I was in the military, I was deployed to the Middle East. In what was considered a war zone. I still managed to get up just about everyday around 2 am just to call a girl back here in the states who was crazy about. So no going silent for 4 days, he better be dead or someone kidnapped him or something. I’d think about finding someone else who will treat you the way you want to be treated, w in reason of course. Someone who will appreciate you, not take you for granted.

[Nauorbb]

Just didn’t wanna talk to you. Probably trying to end the relationship or get you to end it or make an excuse to avoid talking to you.

[jazzy34]

Yup. Too busy…for you. We all have the same 24 hours in a day. People make time for the people and things that are important to them.

[spartan55]

He's too old for you.

[Anonymous]

He wouldn’t be my man anymore I know that much.