Do you agree with the argument that guys are non-monogamous by nature?

[Anonymous]

I’m personally neutral to it. I used to not believe this because I know there are good loyal and strictly monogamous men out there. But I’m seeing more often that this is not the case…

The thing is though, I’m observing that guys are usually sexually non-monogamous whereas girls tend to be more emotionally non-monogamous. Hence why guys cheat physically more often, and girls cheat emotionally more often. I’m just stirring the pot here; but what do you think?

[Nikki1989]

Most men are cheaters, are thinking about cheating, or have cheated in the past. That has been my experience with men.

I have even heard (many times) men freely bragging about how they cheated on their wives or girlfriends.

[Asker]

It’s sadly been my experience as well, I’m hopeful that there are still good men out there though

[MrChinaski]

You know I love your work, but I think that is incorrect. Most men don't cheat

[DishLady]

No. That's just something a guy (or his side piece) will say to justify what the guy is doing.

[Asker]

Cheaters will try to justify everything

[OlderAndWiser]

No, I think that is a weak "justification" for guys who cheat. Most guys are monogamous and satisfied in an exclusive relationship.

[Asker]

I wish more guys think this way

[OlderAndWiser]

I've been dating, in relationships, and married most of the past 54 years and didn't cheat once. I don't think I'm a rare exception.

[Asker]

I’ve never not been cheated on in my life lol but I believe there are men like you out there

[Lliam]

No. Not by nature. That just sounds like an excuse to act like a dog.

[Asker]

Thank you for pointing out the distinction!

[MrChinaski]

The purpose of marriage is to divide women evenly between the men so that the men don't fight with each other.

[Asker]

That’s the ideal reality

[jahaims]

No lol. That's what broken people say. They would rather fuck away problems instead of healing trauma.

[Asker]

Glad there are still people with common sense

[Anonymous]

You may have a good point there, but what counts as emotional cheating?

[Asker]

Hmm things like confiding in someone else, telling them secrets that you’re not telling your partner, having feelings for other people/longing for them, being romantically attached to someone else other than your partner

[Opinion Owner]

I see. In that case I’m inclined to agree with you.

[PaleDale]

Yes.

[Asker]

As in non monogamous more sexually or romantically?

[PaleDale]

Mon monogamous. Both sexually and romantically.

[PaleDale]

Like I know it

[Anonymous]

I tend to agree