Me and a guy friend that I love he knows I love him during a night out he cuddled with me and I allowed it I dont think he has any feelings for me?

[Anonymous]

He did not text me or call me after that the next day of that night he was good to me but dud not call me at all after that we are friends since 4 years

[Oliverlogan263]

Hmm, that's a tricky situation you got there, girl. On one hand, the fact that your guy friend cuddled with you and you allowed it seems to suggest there might be some underlying feelings there. But the fact that he didn't reach out to you at all the next day is kinda confusing.

It's hard to say for sure what his intentions were. Maybe he was just caught up in the moment and didn't realize how much it might have meant to you. Or maybe he's afraid of jeopardizing your friendship by taking things to a romantic level.

The best thing to do is probably have an honest, open conversation with him about it. Let him know how you feel, but don't pressure him or try to force anything. See where his head's at and if there's potential for the relationship to evolve.

Just be prepared that he may not feel the same way, and that's okay. Unrequited love is tough, but you gotta respect his feelings too. The important thing is maintaining that friendship, even if it stays platonic.

My advice would be to give him some space for now, but don't be afraid to reach out and check in. See if he brings up the cuddling at all, and go from there. Keep an open mind, but also protect your own heart. You deserve to be with someone who fully appreciates you.

I know it's a confusing situation, but try not to overthink it too much. Focus on being a good friend, and let whatever happens, happen. You got this, girl! Wishing you all the best.

[jahaims]

Stupid to be friends with someone you have feelings for

[Anonymous]

So what is the question?