How do I get over the embarrassment of reaching out to someone who ignored me after I was kind and respectful? Was it inappropriate bc he’s married?

[Anonymous]

I feel embarrassed because the same week I reached out they had went out of town for a trip and I felt stupid and I think I reacted emotionally when he ignored me or left me on read

I tried explaining to him that it wasn’t like that and I was in a relationship and apologized if it came off the wrong way.

[RavVid]

Ah, what were you reaching out for if you don't mind me asking?

His wife might have thought it was like that. If he was wise he would have said to her 'some random girl has just messaged me'.

Similar happened to me and my girlfriend got competitive and gave the best sex ever in my time with her.

You might have struck on a business idea here.

[Asker]

Just thanking him for being kind to me as teens and wishing him well

[RavVid]

Well that was quite benign

[spartan55]

For the hundredth time he doesn't want to deal with you anymore. Find s different married guy to harass.

[Asker]

How do you know?

[spartan55]

Because you've posted about 50 times

[Anonymous]

This is such a vague situation I don’t know what you’re embarrassed about, or who they are. All I can say is let it go. You can’t take it back so just stop beating yourself up for it. Maybe you feel bad for messaging another dude while in a relationship and guilty, in that case though you should talk to your boyfriend.

[Asker]

I don’t have a boyfriend I just said that to make the conversation less awkward. But he left it on read then I called him a jackass that’s when he replied with “camp?” Then I said yes and said something else nice and he did the same Thing!

So I said “you’re playing on my top and that’s not good for neither of us. (In other words I’m a crash out) I told him I was in a relationship and I apologized… I also said what he was doing was not cool and I didn’t deserve it

[Opinion Owner]

This is a friend from camp?

[Asker]

Yeah he was someone who was kind to me at that point when we were teens and he even called me pretty but after that point I thought nothing much of it but he follows my cousins and I also mentioned that he followed my cousin and he unfollowed her.

[Opinion Owner]

Oh ok. He knows your cousin? Maybe since you called him jackass he doesn’t want to associate with either of you. Could cause drama…

[Asker]

He knows my cousin through me…. But he responded after I called him a jack ass only after that

[Flower7]

Well there’s really nothing you can do about it now. Just don’t contact him anymore.

[jahaims]

Your details are shit. No advice

[Asker]

What details do you need?