Guys, what would you do if you rejected a girl you went on one date with 2 years ago and she still likes you very much but she’s unstable?

[Anonymous]

What would you do if she became depressed, hurt, obsessed because you didn’t want her. How would you as a guy handle it? If she’s maybe unstable

[Summeroflove]

Well number one if she’s unstable the fact of the matter is that she will be unstable no matter what. Number two, I didn’t waste her time or string her along if I felt zero attraction. Most people eventually move on to someone they genuinely finds them attractive back.

If someone becomes obsessed and mentally unstable. That’s probably how the relationship would go. Doesn’t mean I wish any ill will on someone suffering mentally. But the point is that even if we were In a relationship there would be mental health issues.

[Asker]

What would you do if you guys are no longer talking but she’s still not over you

[Summeroflove]

Not much I can do. I’m not wasting someone’s time that I’m not into. I have enough respect not only for myself but for someone else rhat there is someone out there for them.

If I waste their time to save her feelings. She may never find that person

[Asker]

Aww 🥰

[Summeroflove]

That’s just the truth. I wouldn’t want someone wasting my time

[Asker]

What if she just can’t let you go and is borderline suicidal because she just wants to be with you and you not wanting her makes her feel worthless

[Orion84]

I would ignore her. Why waste my time and energy on someone I want nothing to do with?

If she persisted, and it became an issue, then I'd get a restraining order, and she'd eventually end up in a cell.

[Asker]

No compassion for her?

[Orion84]

I would have made it clear after our date that I wasn't interested, so after two years, that would be considered stalking.

Compassion would only validate & reinforce her unwanted, and unacceptable behavior, so no.

[Asker]

But what if she can’t help that she loves you or just wants to be with you

[Asker]

What if she feels suicidal or worthless because you initially made her feel safe then switched up and didn’t want her

[Orion84]

Going on a single date with a woman does not make her my responsibility. She would need to get herself some mental help, and leave me alone.

[Asker]

You hurt her. You made her feel safe and you did her wrong so now she got revenge on you by blasting you on social media, finding your friends and family telling them what you’re into and who you really are. She tells your people you like naked trannies with big dcks then she finds out you’re married but the wife lives out of state…now there’s round 2

And after all that she still wants you.

[Asker]

Now you tell me what you would do about her

[Orion84]

This whole hypothetical scenario is getting ridiculous.

I'm not going to continue responding to imaginary scenarios that get increasingly more insane.

I'm finished with this game.

[Asker]

It’s my story 🥺

[Kaneki05]

I wouldn't of rejected her in the first place.

[Asker]

Why not

[Kaneki05]

I don't reject someone who likes me.

[Anonymous]

I probably wouldn't care about her if I already went on a date with her.

[jahaims]

4 billion females exist. I'm not wasting time on someone who is too immature to heal.

[qwerty2469]

Stay far away from her