It’s one picture. I’ve asked him about it and it’s his ex situationship that ended three months ago. He said they tried dating for 10 months but she’s “childish, mentally disabled and still lives with her mother at 41”. I’m not any of those things and that’s why he’s been dating me for the past month now, but when I asked why he never took the pic down if he doesn’t even like this woman anymore he just shrugs and says “I just don’t see a reason to. Why are you getting upset?”
Why doesn’t he want to remove the picture? I remove all pictures of my exes when we break up. He doesn’t have any pictures of me on his page but he shares the pictures of me that I post. Is he still not over her? Why else would he save the picture if he doesn’t even like or talk to her anymore? Am I weird for being bothered by this?
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I'm not saying this is the reason but it MIGHT be to remember where he was and how far he's come.
I had a similar situation where the woman was a drag on me. She was an alcoholic. And I wanted to help her out of the darkness. I wouldn't give up on her. But she chose the bottle over me. That hurts. I know I shouldn't take any of it personal. And I tell myself that but to an extent I did. I never cut her out of my life because at first I hadn't gotten over her. But then it became about. We'll, maybe her seeing me rise and get better and better in life will encourage her to seek help.
I know you're going to say I want her back, but I don't. I truly mean that. But I hold onto her picture as reminder to keep pushing in life. And never let anything toxic get ahold of me like that.
That’s true. I guess I never really looked at it like that.
Time to move on.
We all carry memories of past relationships, but at some point you need to move on from them.
You think he hasn’t moved on yet?
Its possible.
Possibly wants to keep track of what they are doing, going out with someone.
Following an ex if they are not friends kind of makes you think that there is a reason that they haven't moved on.
Is this a hill you really want to die on?