Am I dating a man who is too feminine, or am I just being far too judgmental?

[Anonymous]

I have been talking to this guy for a month. He REALLY likes me which makes me feel like more of a jerk tbh.. I liked him a lot but I feel my feelings are slowly declining..

I guess I'm just used to scruffy men who work blue collar jobs, and like to keep things simple. This guy complains about the smell of dogs in general, is really into shaving his body every other day, is very into his hair and brows, he is very into tanning, is VERY into LA fashion, says he would rather have women come to him, and complains about his stay at home job all the time while he sits at the pool.

[Orion84]

If you're not attracted to that type of guy, then you're not. Nobody can force attraction, just because they feel guilty.

I definitely wouldn't call him the rugged kind of guy, either, and he sounds somewhat feminine to me, as well. There's nothing wrong with that, but he's just not your type of guy.

If you're not interested, it's better to do both of you a favor end things sooner, rather than dragging out a doomed relationship. That way you can both find someone who's a better long term match.

[Anonymous]

I’m not dating him but yes he does sound feminine. If that’s not your cup of tea then find someone who is. I’m sure as hell not going to stay w a female who isn’t feminine. I wouldn’t be attracted to her. Neither should you if he is t what you’re feeling.

[slatyb]

He's not your type. You aren't attracted. Don't waste his time and yours. Just say "Thanks, it was nice to meet you but I don't think we're a match."

[beefcakebradybatson]

The latter. Is he very handsome?(You seem to like typically ugly American schlubs, lassie!!!)

[spartan55]

Definitely sounds zesty.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you’re not attracted to him, leave

[Ariesman81]

Well hello there 😏