Do you think if I were prettier my coworker would say bye to me before he leaves or passes my door?

[Chelsdope0]

[Clear_Skies10]

You look cute to me. I always acknowledged people at work, but there's always one or two that are too stuck up to say hi.

[DryGermanGuy]

Perhaps he is afraid that you are aggressively trying to get mounted by him? :-o

[Chelsdope0]

What does that even mean?

[Chelsdope0]

Ohh noo I haven’t even said much to him

[Chelsdope0]

Plus he’s a skinny small dude doubt that

[Nikki1989]

That would depend on your coworker. Some people are simply not friendly folk.

[Chelsdope0]

He’s friendly but I more so have to initiate

[David318578]

There is nothing about your looks that would stop someone from saying goodbye to you.

Is this guy married or single?

[Chelsdope0]

I don't know probably gay

[David318578]

Well if he is gay then you have a problem with your personality because how you look would be completely irrelevant to him.

[Chelsdope0]

Every one else talks to me

[David318578]

Some peoples personalities just clash. Or maybe he is shy?
Have you tried initiating conversations with him?

[Chelsdope0]

He’s a sports commentator… he has a podcast, YouTube… does it for a high school.. he’s not shy

We have a lot in common we went to the same college and we are from the same state ect…so like the conversation started off good in the beginning it was friendly!

[Chelsdope0]

He’s not that shy

[David318578]

Is this a guy you want to date or hookup with?

[Chelsdope0]

Neither I was just curious

[David318578]

Well it could be a lot of reasons. Have you dated/hooked up with people at work before? If so is it common knowledge?

[Chelsdope0]

No never lol

[David318578]

Well then it has nothing to do with your reputation then.

Maybe he likes another woman there so doesn't want to give the wrong message.

Maybe one if his friends likes you so your "off limits"

Or maybe he just doesn't like you.

[Chelsdope0]

Oh okay, it’s whatever. I could work on my looks… but we are coworkers.

[David318578]

Is that you in your profile picture?

[Chelsdope0]

Yes it is

[David318578]

Well you look good in that picture of what i can see. So not sure you need to do anything. But it all depends on what his preferences are.

You seem to have big tits, not sure on the rest of your body but im guessing more curvy?

If the guy likes a more curvy girl then your good. If he likes them more skinny and petite then your not.

[Chelsdope0]

He’s a very skinny guy so maybe not a match but oh well

[David318578]

Hard to say. Skinny guys can like curvy women. And generally most guys are going to like curves anyway. So who knows unless you ask him.

[Chelsdope0]

So I had a student in the hallway who was giving me a hard time and I told the student to come here and help me pass out paper. So he did it… and my coworker was in the hallway… so after class the student, his teacher and I were talking and he closed his door and reopened it and looked at the student. Lol… why?

[David318578]

Why did a teacher open the door to look at the student? I have no idea, how old is the student, how old is the teacher? Are they guys girls?
What was the "look" like how guys look at girls they like?

[Chelsdope0]

Yes, he looked at the misbehaving male student while I was talking to him (the student)

[David318578]

Was it a look of irritation, anger, confusion, desire? Or just a random look?

[Chelsdope0]

Not out of desire… the student was giving me a hard time

[David318578]

So probably making sure everything was ok? And the teacher is the guy you like?

[Chelsdope0]

Yeah

[David318578]

Well him making sure you where ok in that situation doesn't mean anything other then he seems like a good guy.
He could be totally into you and wants to make sure your ok, or he could not care about you at all in a sexual way and still want to make sure you are ok. Its just what men do.. well good men

[Chelsdope0]

Oh okay, I appreciate it either way.

[David318578]

Have you tried initiating a conversation with him?

[Chelsdope0]

Yes, when I first got there I introduced myself and we hit it off. We went to the same college, we were both from the same state ect… and some other stuff

We were cool… then it kind of died down… our classrooms are right next to eachother.. he would say things here and there joke… but I noticed I have to more so initiate… he won’t say hi or bye.. I said good morning one morning and he said it the next

[David318578]

Well shoot your shot. Ask him if he would want to go out and get some coffee sometime. See how it goes.

[Chelsdope0]

I don’t think he’s interested like you mentioned especially since I have to initiate… plus I don’t want things to be awkward

[David318578]

Maybe he is and maybe he isn't. If you go for it you will know. If you dont do anything then you won't.

Besides whats the worst thing that can happen? He said no and doesn't really talk to you after? Seems like thats how it is now.

Years ago me and this girl that we worked together would chat a lot and then it just kind of stopped. Not sure why at the time but it just drifted apart. We ended up meeting up years later and got to talking and she asked me why I got mad at her. I never got mad at her, she just stopped taking with me so i stopped as well. Maybe i was having a bad day or she was and it was just assumed that i was mad and had no interest.

I thought she was kind of cute but figured she had no interest in me so i stopped pursuing her.

If she would of asked me out for coffee back then i would of gone and we could of laughed at the misunderstanding. But neither of us did anything.

After i found that out I decided to always just go for it.

[Chelsdope0]

Right if he doesn’t talk to me then it’s pointless besides I like when the guy likes the girl more and shows it… so he’s not for me regardless.

[David318578]

Yeah understandable. You could always show off your assets to him and see if he responds, wear a little more revealing clothes, although not sure how well that will work of your a teacher. What years are you teaching?

[Chelsdope0]

3-5th … Art.. he teaches math.

I don’t think he’s attracted to. I’ll start avoiding him and just keep to myself.. it can be triggering for me… because now I think I’m not at attractive and I know guys like him who

[David318578]

Just play it neutral, be nice to him and see what happens.

And from what i see in your profile you are attractive so dont worry about that

[Chelsdope0]

Yeah I do…

[Chelsdope0]

Or gay I don't know

[Chelsdope0]

I was half sleep when I wrote that sorry!!!

[David318578]

Lol yeah i have replied to the wrong person before as well no worries

[MeAndYouRightHere]

No. Cause you are not only pretty but beautiful now too

[dudeinohio]

You look very pretty to me.

[ChicoFromThe305]

Probably

[Chelsdope0]

Bro fck you lmaooo but okay

[ChicoFromThe305]

I mean I've already tried to make you feel better about yourself and that doesn't work, I'm just agreeing with you at this point 😂

[Chelsdope0]

What ever lol

[ChicoFromThe305]

Lol.

[In_Trance]

I doubt it