Guys, if you have fallouts with a girl and she always comes back is the ball in your court to shape the dynamic to how you want it?

[Anonymous]

[Sal_Monella]

Long back, I set rules for a reprise. This is how it is going to go. If you break these rules, I am gone. When I set them, there is no deal or negotiation. They are an offer she can't refuse if she wants to reprise. Parents used to call this tough love. This dynamic is almost incompatible with the nature of modern women. Sounds harsh and they will always try to weasel a little. When I saw that, I warned them. No woman is such a jewel that she isn't worth losing.

[Anonymous]

No. Regardless of what happened between the two parties, they should agree on a dynamic that mutually benefits both of them.