It entirely depends on what we consider hard to get. If we mean she is ignoring him and not going out with him, that makes normal, healthy guys move on. But if we mean she is hard to get SEXUALLY, as in she will still text and go on dates with the guy, but also doesn't have sex with him right away and still flirts... that is insanely attractive (but only if she always does that and isn't a whore who is normally easy and only decided to be hard to get with this one guy). Characters who are great examples are Princess Leia Organa, Kim Possible, Lois Lane, Mary Jane Watson, and Winry Rockbell, among others. The key here is that the "hard" comes from challenging the guy in one or more ways.
No. I’m not one to make things overly complicated.
Flamboyant? Absolutely. Extra? Maybe. But to purposely put road blocks to something that you want isn’t indicative of anything good in the slightest; it typically has meant that you needed someone to “prove” your love with grand gestures and huge things instead of just simply existing and doing their best to love you, if past relationships are any indication. There’s a difference between arbitrarily proving love and simply just doing it without having to prompt or ask. To put roadblocks just to make it happen is not how you form a functional and organic relationship. It usually is a deterrent, not a hook.
This is a PSA (public service announcement) to all females:
Guys do not like it. It's so rare, the ones who do, that you should file this away as "they hate it. And they are refusing to play this game anymore, in this climate of #metoo, jail time, getting fired at work, etc etc. Those days are over. You're going to have to be more direct now.
It’s fun to tease. I do it to my SO. But most effective in very small doses.
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No way. There is absolutely nothing you could do to drive me into the arms of another woman faster than playing hard to get.
NO, IT IS NOT ATTRACTIVE! And I recommend staying off tik tok because that site has a whole bunch of toxic crap that is detrimental to both men and women. But back to my main point, why would a man pursue a woman who is showing very little interest in him, when he can go find another woman who already has a higher level of interest in him? We don't wanna waste our time with someone who doesn't give a damn about us or is not into us. So do not, and I repeat DO NOT play hard to get.
to some degree but that depends on the consistency of her rules.
is she making it equally hard to every guy regardless of their looks, money or status? or she letting certain guys get away with doing more to her than others?
Hell no! I hate mind games. Just because a girl doesn't paly hard-to-get, doesn't mean she has to rush things, either. Only women think in that stupid mindset that "if you don't have to struggle to get him, he's not high value." I'd be happy instantly getting the girl of my dreams with minimal effort. Like I said though, little effort doesn't mean the same thing as rushing to marriage (not that I want to get married anymore.)
No; definitely not attractive. I do not like games like this; either you are interested, or you're not. If you can not make up your mind, I'll choose someone else. (Well, I'm married now, but this would be my reaction if I was still single and looking around).
Nope.
Would you like it if you had to queue 10 deep at a bar to get a drink?
Oh wait, bad example; you have never bought drinks in a bar..
No, it's actually very unattractive. If a man knows a woman is playing hard to get, he'll know she is the type to play head games, which is obviously a big turn off. If he doesn't know she is playing hard to get, he'll just think she is not interested and likely just move on. Honestly I can't think of a better way to fail as a woman than playing hard to get.
No. It's definitely unattractive.
But it's also unattractive if she talks a lot without saying anything. Like, if I like you, and you like me, don't ask me how my day was. Just ask me on a date! I don't have time for the bullshit.
No, if she plays hard to get, I'm just going to think she's not interested and move on.
If it gets carried out for too long, it becomes unattractive.
Not really. That stuff sounds and looks good in movies but no guy worth his salt is gonna spin his wheels chasing after someone who doesn't seem interested in them.
m Nope im not looking to chase a women I like like a hound to its master rhats not attractive to me
Not in the least. I drop women flat that play hard to get.
Nope, not for me. I want a woman that knows what she wants, and says it. I had mind games, and having to mind read.
NO Completely unattractive
I have no clue where this idea comes from or why women think men are attracted to it. Exactly the opposite. I would say bye bye and move on.
No way. Such games are a deal breaker.
If she is playing hard to get, I move on.
No. Huge red flag. Move on immediately.
𝘕𝘰. 𝘪𝘵𝘴 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘵𝘢𝘯𝘵 𝘤𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨𝘦
Hell no.
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