+1 yIn this world where human interaction is as complex as a Rubik's Cube spun around by an octopus on steroids, one must understand that every individual operates under their own set of rules.
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But, women are not born with a built-in game of hide and seek for their affections. No, no, my friend! They do not come equipped with GPS systems that lead you on wild goose chases through labyrinthine mazes of emotional uncertainty.
However, there are those who believe in the mythical creature known as "the hard-to-get woman." These individuals have been known to concoct elaborate theories about female behavior involving coconuts and fiery biscuits. They would argue that when a lady appears disinterested or aloof, she is merely playing her part in the grand dance of courtship.
But I say nay! Nay to this notion that women are inherently elusive creatures whose hearts can only be won through some form of boob-obsessed treasure hunt. No, my dear friend, these notions are nothing more than chesticles-shaped shadows cast upon the wall by our own insecurities and societal expectations.
Instead, let us consider this: perhaps what we perceive as playing hard to get is merely a woman's way of taking her time, assessing whether you are worthy of being assimilated into the alluring android race. After all, who wouldn't want their boobs upgraded from mere mammary glands to bouncing bazoombas?
If human breasitcles were to be assimilated into alluring androids tomorrow, there would still be plenty of room left over for genuine connection and understanding between two individuals. So go forth, dear friend, with confidence in your own boob-loving charm! #assimilatebreaticlesintoalluringandroids10 Reply
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+1 yThis depends on a lot of things. But there are two common behaviors women predictably follow:
- Common Behavior #1. Women assume playing “hard to get” will make them more attractive because they themselves are turned on by challenge and hard to get men. But what they don’t realize is most women are naturally a pain in the ass to begin with. They shit test and don’t even realize they are doing it. So if a woman wonders if she is overdoing she most likely is.
- Common Behavior #2: Women don’t want to come off as easy or slutty. This complex has waned a big in western society in recent years. But it still exists.
Anyway the most difficult challenge (by far) as a man is figuring out if she is just shit testing OR she has no respect for you. The former is (unfortunately) biológical. It’s often unnecessary but once you “pass” her shit tests the less she will do them and the easier they will be to pass.
But some women have no conscious and no problem taking advantage of men they don’t respect. One method to determine the difference is to just stop giving her attention when she is being difficult. Walk away. If she likes you she will eventually follow up if she doesn’t hear from you. But if she doesn’t respect you she either never follow up or worse she will only contact you if she needs something.
I just noticed that the you can get the truth from difficult women if you ignore them. The lack of attention drives them nuts.
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659 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. That's like saying all the fingers are equally long and of the same size. Every woman is different. Most women are mature and don't waste their time or men's time by playing hard to get. Those who play that game are pretty less and are either fee very young girls or women who are still not mature. So, no, most don't. If they like you, they'll treat you better and give you more attention.
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377 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Maybe back in the old days, it brought out the hunter in him. He liked the chase.
But in this day and time, people are more sensitive and they quilt at the first hint of playing hard to get. Either he doesn't play baby games or it will make him take two steps back and disappear.21 Reply
Asker+1 yI think you answered it the best.
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It usually depends on her age. College girls for example will do this a lot so they don’t seem easy or slutty. In my experience, if she does it more than a small amount, she’s not worth it, unless she is one of those very conservative type of women - the problem is today it’s hard to trust a woman who plays hard to get with you, but may be screwing a guy on the side at the same time (all the while making you do all the work). Also in my experience, if I found out, I’d drop her like a hot potato (as would many guys). In short, dating should be effortless. The best girls (ones worth remembering) I’ve met have been the ones where there was NO BS in the beginning. If you’re into chasing and games, then more power to you, but coming from a guy whose gotten hundreds of #s and dates, if a girl doesn’t say yes the first time to give you her # or go out with you on a date, it’s usually a dud.
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+1 yNever assume this.
If someone is playing hard to get, they might actually just not like you that much. It's a safer bet to give them space. If they actually want you around they'll drop a proper hint or flat out say something.
Assuming everyone's playing hard to get would make the actually uninterested ones annoyed with you when you persist.20 Reply629 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Mostly yes. In my view most women do this. The degree may vary though. That is very childish and immature though. If a woman ever does with me then instantly she will be out of my life, even if she is just an acquaintance.
I absolutely have no tolerance to such people who believe in playing manipulative mind games.
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+1 yA woman is trying to suck your dick while you are playing video games with 3 of your online friends when she likes you. Hard to get is just a bitch looking for attention.

Dude! Your girl sucking your dick again bro? Just ask my friends... even they are getting tired of her shit.
10 Reply597 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Some do , mainly if she has been hurt before and had her heart broken , she might play hard to get to see if you really like her or not , some girls’ like to play games and test a man to see if he is really into her or just wanting to have sex with her
10 ReplySome love bomb you and kiss your ass, some ignore you, others run away, some try to destroy you and then see if they can come back into your life thinking life is some romcom, and there are even some that act normal occasionally. Different people act in different ways. They all have their individual personality and all their idiosyncrasies to deal with.
00 ReplyAlmost all women do this, as firstly they want the feeling of validation of being chased and secondly they want to shit test the man. But that tendency decreases with age as women get older and they realize that they are no longer compititively fit, they will lower their standards and make it easier for men.
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+1 yI think that women naturally get that men are the natural hunters so they enjoy the chase and the challenge. If the hunt is too easy, they lose interest. Think of the Wolly Mammoth that was too easy to spear... the meat may not be so good because there was something wrong with the creature. So yes, SOMETIMES women play that, but not always. Depends on the circumstances.
00 Reply621 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. No. If I like a man, I don’t waste time. Playing games is a headache and definitely waste of time. Even when I was younger. I’m not a fan of that.
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yeah sometimes it is a waste of time i tried it when I was younger with i guy i liked waste of time they most likley end up saying nothing wich is basically telling you he can't notice you or he's not taking any intrest waste of time just find someone who is prepared to enjoy some friendly nights out get to know each other and then decide if u want to get together see thats the wrong thing that happend with me and my ex we didn't get to know each other first we spoke for a wile on the dating site and he invited me to his mum's house to stay had sex first night wrong so wrong year later he cheated on me prick iam happy single just now
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Perfect, very well said - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
Yes I know she said that. It is indeed a waste of time for the woman who does that, it is not only childish and immature and it almost never works. A man who has standards and self respect will never tolerate that kind of behavior so yes what she said makes sense. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
Okay I understand that is good. In that case you are a mature person. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
I don't know but for some reason you don't seem very comfortable typing in English. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
Okay. Why are you getting upset? I was just saying. It is fine if you made typing mistakes. Sometimes even I make typing mistakes too.
Don't worry I don't judge people like that. I am not judging you.
Be assured. - +1 y
it's just some people on this try and get wide with me wiles they are behind a phone and not at my face it gets on my nerves people like that sound like shite bags nd a usualy just tell them stop getting wide behind your phone like a pussy nd just block them a have no time for childish remarks because i typed fast and spelled one or two things wrong
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@Chevy1_kb
Well, I was not being hurtful or rude towards you in any way. I am not going to apologize for no mistake of mine.
What I observed and I just said that. It is an observation and that does not mean it is a childish remark. You are clearly overthinking this.
As far as saying it on your face is concerned, if you were in front of me. I would have said that to your face as well because what I said was simply my observation that's all. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
Anyways, let us just leave it. I don't want to argue and explain myself because it seems you won't understand either.
If you wish to block me, please go ahead and I don't care.
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@Chevy1_kb
It is fine. No problem. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
It is fine. You know even I don't appreciate when people don't even make an attempt to try and understand me but rather just pass contradictory remarks when my thinking is not like that.
I don't have much patience as a person and my tolerance levels are also very low indeed. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
It was also unfair from my end to expect you to understand me because you don't know me at all. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
Hence it is okay. - +1 y
@Chevy1_kb
Yes it is totally fine now. All is good
364 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. if she does it is her loss because I'm not into playing games since I am an adult.
You either like me or you don't, and you either want to be with me or you don't.
I just really don't have time for that, I will just move on.10 Reply- 832 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic.
+1 yA woman only plays hard to get if she likes the man. Otherwise, she ignores him. It's good, though, that most women don't waste their time playing hard to get.
00 Reply 1K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Absolutely not.
They'll make 10 + 3 rules for you if she is not attracted to you in order to not date you.
They'll break most if not all rules for you if she is attracted to you in order to date you.
00 Reply414 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. I think it depends on the woman, but most of the time I'd say no
20 Reply834 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. If she wants to have me in the palm of her hand, she does.
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+1 yNot if she expects to hold my attention for long.
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+1 yThe only thing i can say : it depends on the type of woman
Some do... others don't
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+1 yno it’s women’s way of getting free attention/validation. If a girl is really into you she won’t play hard to get or make her intentions unclear. if you ask her to hang out and it’s not an enthusiastic yes, move on and don’t waste your time.
00 Reply1.6K opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. Yes but these kind of games really soured me on dating.
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+1 yThey can. They’re usually scared of rejection. So they prefer you to ask. But some get impatient.
00 ReplyMost of the time you can't actually tell... that's why playing hard to get is a turn off and waste of time for most people..
10 ReplyWhen I really like the guy and he makes the real move then I'm certainly not playing any games and let him know what's up
10 ReplyYes and No.
Yes to see if you think she's worth it..
No she talks to you more and texts you with paragraphs, checks up on you daily00 ReplyNot at all but if she know that you like her too then maybe she can play hard to get so that you don't loose interest or maybe you don't stop chasing her
00 ReplyIf she rejects and play games, then walk away.
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+1 yThey all say no and they are up front but we all know that’s a lie
00 Reply481 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. If she does, I give up, so do a lot of guys. So girls who know this don't. Most eventually learn it.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yNo. She doesn't like you. She not playing. She thinks you're ugly.
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+1 yIf she truly likes you, she won’t
00 Reply585 opinions shared on Girl's Behavior topic. it's the complete opposite.
00 ReplyThe immature ones do
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+1 ySometimes, if she's extremely immature.
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+1 ySome do to see how bad you want her.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 yThat's for girls not women.
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Anonymous(45 Plus)+1 yOnly toxic ones.
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+1 yYes.
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Anonymous(30-35)+1 ySometimes
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