Hi guys,
I need your honest opinion on playing hard to get as a girl. Do you consider this sth attractive? If yes, why? Have you encountered a girl/women who did this to you and how did you experience this?
please give extensive opinions as I really want to get around this thing.
much appreciated😇
Initially it can be exciting and show that they have an interesting life. And I mean only up to before the first date.
After that it quickly becomes old when they have no time to chat and hence seem uninterested. I find it heartbreaking if I invest in someone and they are playing games. It makes me feel like they don't respect me or I am not a priority. Not exactly a foundation for a healthy relationship!
Once I feel that, I will never give them a second chance again. Except maybe for a hookup nothing serious tho because I won't trust them. Life's too short and I value my time/myself!!
Great question.
I wonder if women respond the same? I feel like many women are often actually the opposite and prefer guys who are somewhat unavailable.
No because that makes it harder for a guy especially one that is not experienced with dating to figure out if a woman rejects him or just plays hard to get. Because the behaviour of both intentions is so similar it could to more guys not taking no for answer.
Hard to get doesn't happen... and if it does... I don't notice because I'm already talking to her friend about going to my place. If she comes back around I will try to hook her up with my fat friend though. I got frozen chicken wings at the house.
I am not into games or playing hard to get. It's a waste of time and effort. If she wants to play games I typically pass her onto one of my buddies.
Grab a beer and watch a little reality TV.
She can only play that game if she's hot enough to do so.
I have hot options already, I wouldn't be wasting time pursuing an average or even slightly above average chic playing hard to get.
If she's under a 7, it won't work
Been there done that I dont care if she's Beyonce Im never kissing ass again. I get equal attention or im not bothering
No. It shows that she is immature and would be manipulative in a relationship. I like honest, straightforward women, not manipulators.
Hmmmm. Interesting 😏
It shows she isn't mature if she is playing hard to get.
Yes, it suggests they are high value
That's a red flag for me
No way. Guys hate mind games.
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