Is it attractive when a women play hard to get?

[tamarax7]

Hi guys,

I need your honest opinion on playing hard to get as a girl. Do you consider this sth attractive? If yes, why? Have you encountered a girl/women who did this to you and how did you experience this?

please give extensive opinions as I really want to get around this thing.

much appreciated😇

[dreamer123912]

Initially it can be exciting and show that they have an interesting life. And I mean only up to before the first date.

After that it quickly becomes old when they have no time to chat and hence seem uninterested. I find it heartbreaking if I invest in someone and they are playing games. It makes me feel like they don't respect me or I am not a priority. Not exactly a foundation for a healthy relationship!

Once I feel that, I will never give them a second chance again. Except maybe for a hookup nothing serious tho because I won't trust them. Life's too short and I value my time/myself!!

Great question.

I wonder if women respond the same? I feel like many women are often actually the opposite and prefer guys who are somewhat unavailable.

[Lionman95]

No because that makes it harder for a guy especially one that is not experienced with dating to figure out if a woman rejects him or just plays hard to get. Because the behaviour of both intentions is so similar it could to more guys not taking no for answer.

[D_Bone_Steak]

Hard to get doesn't happen... and if it does... I don't notice because I'm already talking to her friend about going to my place. If she comes back around I will try to hook her up with my fat friend though. I got frozen chicken wings at the house.

[OfMiceandMen]

I am not into games or playing hard to get. It's a waste of time and effort. If she wants to play games I typically pass her onto one of my buddies.

Grab a beer and watch a little reality TV.

[VikingWarLord]

She can only play that game if she's hot enough to do so.

I have hot options already, I wouldn't be wasting time pursuing an average or even slightly above average chic playing hard to get.

If she's under a 7, it won't work

[mb120101]

Been there done that I dont care if she's Beyonce Im never kissing ass again. I get equal attention or im not bothering

[HighValue]

No. It shows that she is immature and would be manipulative in a relationship. I like honest, straightforward women, not manipulators.

[Christoff92]

Hmmmm. Interesting 😏

[art84]

It shows she isn't mature if she is playing hard to get.

[MrCommodore]

Yes, it suggests they are high value

[brandon1122]

That's a red flag for me

[dudeinohio]

No way. Guys hate mind games.

[msc545]

No - it is abusive andd obnoxious as hell.

[gag37627]

It is good. Cuz you can avoid those sh8s

[In_Trance]

I don't think so