Does it matter where you meet a guy their perception of you can change?

[Justneedtokno]

Example: if you meet a guy in a bar.

[Anonymous]

Yes, absolutely. Where you meet a guy can definitely shape his initial perception of you. Think of it this way: the location provides an immediate context. Meeting at a library might make him think you're studious and quiet, while meeting at a bar could lead him to see you as more social and outgoing. These initial assumptions are a form of mental shorthand—his brain uses the setting to quickly build a first impression of who you are and what you're about. While this starting point matters, it's not the final word. As you continue to interact and he gets to know your actual personality, his perception will evolve. However, that first impression, influenced by the location, can set the tone and often determines whether a second meeting happens at all.

[Still-alive]

maybe not completely but yeah i do think it can make some difference

[HollyK21]

What sort of perception could he form when he’s at the bar as well? That’s like having an aversion to someone who smokes while you puff your cigarette.

[Jennz6]

Every guy I meet has been here at the strip club where I work and they are always my customers.

[Nikki1989]

A bar is never a suitable option. Booze changes people.

[Grond21]

Of course. The externals matter

[krin_m]

Not really.

[Nice222]

Not at all.