Why did he not call or have a bad pattern to follow-up calling?

[Anonymous]

Talking to someone for a month. Everything was honey moon at first where we talk everyday on call. Then he said he got super busy and rarely called me. I called him out on not following through for quality time while being hurt about it. He said he need time to think. He came back with a big apology on text how he hurt me, and how he only wants me & just me. I asked if he’s free to talk on call the night or next night after work. He said next day, but then didn’t text me all day until he’s off work to say he can’t call because his brother needs his help at his house. I just stopped replying tonight and left him on read because this is becoming a pattern when he knew it was to talk about us.

I don’t understand why even write me a big message of an apology and wants me yet can’t even call me to talk about us?

[boggboss]

Seems like what u two want or expect from a relationship in regards to communication is just different although him saying he will do stuff to which he breaks is reason enough to end things

[Asker]

I agreed about communication differences.. Sorry I’m confuse about what you mean after you said “Although —-“

[boggboss]

Having different communication styles is fine and could have been dealt with if u was both open to it but if he apologised and then did the same thing again by not responding again its fair enough to end things

[Asker]

Right, but why do you think he apologize and say he wants me… but why didn’t he make time for a phone call to talk about us? He’s just been offline on Instagram and I never replied. I have nothing to say cuz he already knows I wanted a call.

[boggboss]

Because he felt bad at the time of apologising but was still not willing to put the effort in to call u

[Asker]

Yeah why wasn’t he putting the effort to call me even after the apology?