Why can't men just give up?

[bunniesrcute]

This dude in my friend group can't accept a no. He keeps asking to go out in subtle ways even tho i always say no, my friends think its cute and quirky so when i try to avoid him, they keep inviting him.

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7 mo

and people seriously still wonder why i dont date men. they’re all absolutely disgusting.

[Nikki1989]

Some men are creeps.

Check the creepy male comment on this thread. It made my skin crawl.

[bunniesrcute]

and people still ask me why i dont date men smh.

[Nikki1989]

This site is a surefire way to turn anyone off men.

[Anonymous]

Well some men just won’t take no for an answer. So maybe you discontinue the friendship w him if he can’t respect your wishes. At the same time there are women who get mad when a man simply gives up rather then continuously pursuing her. But you might want to consider ending your friendship w him if he co tongues to press you.

[bunniesrcute]

Yeah im thinking about doing it, but my friends will get mad and say im taking it too seriously.

[Opinion Owner]

It’s easy to say that when they’re not the ones in this situation. Make the decision based on what your answer is, not theirs.

[bunniesrcute]

okay ill do it

[spartan55]

What do you mean by 'asking you to go out in subtle ways'. Could you give some examples?

[bunniesrcute]

like asking for drinks or dinner etc, i worded it a little weirdly. but he usually says something cheesy like ”maybe we could talk more about it over dinner?” or ”i would love to do that over dinner” etc etc

[spartan55]

You'll just have to a firmly worded (not rude) conversation with him that you are not interested in dating him and to stop asking.

[bunniesrcute]

yeah i have tried that about 3 times now. he just won't stop, so i gave up and just try to ignore him

[spartan55]

Try the group chat shaming route

[bunniesrcute]

okay

[Tamera952]

Most do, some don’t. Some then verge into creep territory (like Pres. Pedo or Jeff Epstein) .

[ashish804]

May be u r really very sexy and he wanna bang u hard

[stayorgo]

Are you kidding me woman , go stay with the bear 🐻 please please leave us men ALONE

[Anonymous]

Sorry to hear this douchebag, like a lot of men, ruin it for the good guys.

[Kelly6]

@bunniesrcute weird

[BarryLiverstone]

Testosterone

[bunniesrcute]

how does testosterone make you unable to accept a no?

[BarryLiverstone]

It doesn’t. Your q was why can’t men just give up. Testosterone pushes him to keep risking rejection.

[bunniesrcute]

well its not a risk anymore

[BarryLiverstone]

Certainly is a risk

[bunniesrcute]

not really, since I've said no every single time.

[BarryLiverstone]

So he’s felt rejection every time

[bunniesrcute]

is it really that anymore?

[BarryLiverstone]

Yes, that’s a part of it. Also as you said, your friends keep inviting him.

It sounds like you are not attracted to him. Have you ever told him bluntly that he’s not attractive?

[bunniesrcute]

yeah i have