Should I give it to him or throw it away?

[Anonymous]

I like fragrances, soaps, perfumes, lotion, and scrubs. My ex loved Star Wars. So I came across a video of a collection of Star Wars themed men's soap. I bought it to feel more connected. It's something we both liked together as one. Having a collection collaboration with celebs, movies, and shows is a trend these days, so it's not worth much to resell it, and the scents are too masculine for me. We broke up 4 years ago, and we talk here and there. What should I do with it? I don't want it anymore. It reminds me of myself trying to integrate our lives together, but in the end he moved on.

Throw it away

Give it to him

Keep it, it might be worth something in the future

[SueShe]

No, don't give it to him because, indirectly, you are sending him the message

"hey see what I have for you. Maybe we can reconnect..."

You want to leave your past behind you and not try to reconnect with an ex. One never does attempt to reconnect. They are exes because of a good reason and by giving a present to him you indicate that he has still a place in your life. No, he does not. You have moved away and it is best to keep a distance between the past and the present.

Just dispose of those soaps if you don't want to use them yourself.

[Anonymous]

I voted C, it might be worthy in the future.