Do you have chivalry?

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Title says it all. Men supposedly would go as far as laying their jacket down in a puddle for their woman to walk on? Regardless do you have chivalry. As in are you holding the door and pulling the chair from the very first date & onwards.

Caughtulookin · Accepted Answer

I just watched a recent document on Michael Kohberger. He was a graduate in criminology and very intelligent. His youth was not spent as a drunk idiot party goer so he wasn't as social as others in university. The show was mostly women spokesman on criminal minds in which Michael was probably just as qualified to do himself. The women depicted him as a socially awkward incel involved in the incel movement. I had to turn it off because they were basically saying that because he couldnt get girls to like him then he fit the pattern of a serial killer. The truth is most femicide is commited by family members or lovers of the victim. Not only was it not factually correct but it puts a target on less social males. The new chivalry of today is that you never have any disagreement with modern feminism. If your a gentleman you are desperate. If your not sleeping around with many women then you are an incel.

XXTruthfulOgrexx · Accepted Answer

With friends, family and established relationships, certainly. Everyone else, hell no. I've had way too many random 15 minute lectures on how its demeaning to strong independent women.

Now I just laugh if the door hits them or they are struggling. No longer my problem, no longer my circus.

DishLady · Accepted Answer

Chivalry isn't just about being kind to those you're dating, it's about showing gentlemanly kindness and respect to everyone.

purplepoppy · Accepted Answer

The only man who ever did the puddle thing was sir Walter Raleigh and he ended up getting his head chopped off.

_piotr · Answer

Chivalry is just a sugar-coated name for slavery. It is sexist as it is based on a conviction that women are superior beings and men are just expendable cannon fodder and should serve females and grovel before them.

I personały advocate for people of both genders to be a good and kind to one another, not for this twisted chivalry thing.

RavVid · Answer

Girls have told me I succeed as a gentleman so I guess I do.

I think the #1 rule to for chivalry is to walk on the curb side when arm in arm so you don't obstruct your girls view of shop windows and to not move her along when there are clothes she wants to look at.

If they like you they seem to want to look at clothes. It is probably a good sign.

Phoenix98 · Answer

I'm a gentleman to those feel are worth it but I'm not chivalrous since contrary to popular belief chivalry was never really about women it had one small line in it about the treatment of women and that really mainly applied to noble women not commoners. It was a code of conduct on how knights should act in the world of nobility and in regards to politics and the church.

genericname85 · Answer

yeah but the thing is: chivalry is supposed to be displayed towards "ladies". i'm not seeing any "ladies" these days. just entitled bitches. and i'm not saying "bitch" as an insult for a "female". i'm using it as an insult for a person with a bad character.

Anonymous · Answer

I try to treat everyone with kindness and respect until they give me a reason not to. But chivalry is different. Chivalry men is treating women as special because just they are women. Women have lost the privilege to be treated as special because they no longer are.

altaboy · Answer

I do, but my doctor says I should not worry because it should clear up on its own in a few months.

RxR0954 · Answer

I’d say definitely for my girlfriend. It’s something nice to do for a partner

NathanDavis · Answer

I'd build her an entire bridge... instead of doing such dumb thing... lol

MysticDevice · Answer

Only towards those who'd properly appreciate the effort. Or at the very least would be neutral about it.

sirderpsalot123 · Answer

Not really, I generally just try to not be an Asshole. I don't go out of my way to chivalrous

NerdGuy89 · Answer

I hold the door open for anyone, but im not going out of my way because you’re a woman. Feminism killed chivalry.

DizzyAster2 · Answer

I can hold doors open and let women go first. That's the most I'm doing.  Y'all are on your own!!

zagor · Answer

No, but I try to be considerate regardless of age and gender.

Awesomesauce2005 · Answer

Yes, I get mad when I see guys not practicing this and having their girlfriend open the door

Anonymous · Answer

I do, depends on the girl... but it doesn't help much.

Anonymous · Answer

I regularly challenge people to duels to defend the honor of my liege lord

exitseven · Answer

Yes, my father raised me right.

Staximus · Answer

For the most part

LiamJHayden · Answer

I have courtesy.

beefcakebradybatson · Answer

Of course. I'm a man.

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