Crush seems to be very sensitive, how should I deal with this?

[Lalalove11]

It's happened a few times I'm laughing and he thinks I'm laughing at him which I would not do.

Once he said he rarely has mobile data and I kind of laughed because it sounded absurd. I wasn't laughing at him. He shrugged and sort of frowned.

I'm wondering if this shows some level of incompatibility (in terms of humour)

Am I insensitive? Is he too sensitive?

[abc3643]

GET RID OF HIM NOW.
He's just like my wife. They think everything is about them and everything said to them is an attack on them.
You will have to work at this relationship every single day. It will take more work than the job you have. You will have no freedom.
You will have constant arguments in which you ultimately apologize because its the only way to sate them for the next few hours.
THESE PEOPLE ARE BLACK HOLES.
All the effort you put into them does nothing but drain you.

Get rid of him now.

[Lalalove11]

Oof really? I thought he might be an immature 21 year old but he could just be that way
I end up feeling guilty for laughing also I don't like that.

[abc3643]

Immature or not, this is not a good sign and I don't think it will ever change.

[abc3643]

He may not be all that bad and it may be simple immaturity or misunderstanding, so I won't say get rid of him now, but be vigilant to see if this is a pattern with him - that he perceives innocent behavior as really an attack or "judgment" (or some such shit kids worry about today). If he does, then he definitely needs to go.

[Lalalove11]

Hm well it happened maybe two other times so far. like he kept playing left hand piano over and over and over this one part it seemed comical I laughed a bit and he wasn't laughing. Like am I missing something here? And then I feel kinda of guilty for it

[Spencer10]

I think you are overthinking... you really would have to get to know him more before you can start thinking about compatibility in my opinion.

[Lalalove11]

Yes I do tend to overthink. It's happened a few times though I laughed and he didn't and it feels uncomfortable, like there could potentially be a humour mismatch. But maybe too soon to say

[Spencer10]

I would say way too soon... he might be just nervous around you... all kinds of reasons.

[Anonymous]

Which one? U were struggling between 2 crushes

[Lalalove11]

Dark haired one. The one which I feel more awkward with

[Opinion Owner]

And why the awkwardness?

[Lalalove11]

We are both inhibited and I guess it's the wrong environment.

[Opinion Owner]

Wdym wrong environment? What are your personalities?

[MasterKS]

he needs to grow up.