After the 1st date, the guy disapeared for a week and then sent me flowers? does he want a relationship or a fling?

[Anonymous]

is it a serious gesture or just impulsive?

[Alex-Snow]

I guess it depends on how the 1st date went. I assume no sex was involved? He just may have needed time to think about or got busy with life or the holidays. I'd try for date #2 and see how it goes.

[dudeinohio]

Hard to say. Reach out to him and see what he says.

[exitseven]

You can stick around and find out or you could tell him to get lost.

[In_Trance]

Ask him what he wants