Guy talks to everyone, but me?

[Anonymous]

Is this normal? He laughs and jokes with others, but with me, he’s quiet? He walked past me, and whistle. He doesn’t say hi, unless I say hi, and tries to avoid walking in my direction. He also laughs at everything I say, even though I wasn’t being funny? He says responds with a smile when I say hi but he never tells me hi first?

[Abbycado]

Who is “he” to you? Colleague? Friend’s friend? School? Lots of missing context.

[Asker]

Coworker

[Abbycado]

Don’t worry about it then. You’re paid to work, right? Do that.

[Anonymous]

I'm very introverted and never talk to anyone first. I was always extremely anxious around my crush.

[Anonymous]

He's trying to make it clear to you that he's not interested.

[Asker]

Yeah I thought that at first. Until I overheard him talking to another coworker about he’s going to ignore. People who hate you wouldn’t care or even make a big deal about it. He never said hi to me so I never said hi to him but now I see he’s mirroring me.

[spartan55]

How long have you known each other?

[Anonymous]

Maybe you should take initiative.