This guy straight up ignores me and very obviously avoids me. It’s getting sickening because I see him every day and I’m just trying to be civil and friendly, but he makes me feel so bad. He’s friendly with every other girl except for me.
From the perspective of a guy who has done this before, the reasons I would act that same way are:
You get too much guy attention and I don't want to compete against other guys and/or stroke your ego by being yet another guy attracted to you
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I think you're out of my league and I'm not going to risk the higher chance of getting shot down
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I'm highly attracted to you and too nervous or shy to initiate a conversation with you
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I know, (or heard rumors) that you get around too much or jump from relationship to relationship too frequently. ( Dating is not a sport to me. Once I'm in a relationship Im in it for the long haul and I don't give up on it easily or too quickly.
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I think you're in a relationship and I try not to conversate with other people's significant others unless it's work related
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I don't feel like you are my "people". (The type of people I usually "vibe" with the most)
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Someone has told me that you have complained about me or told on me for something before
None of this might apply to you but I'm just speaking from a perspective of someone who has been like that before.
Ok it could be for a number of reasons. But why is it so important for him to talk to you? In answer to your question I could be because you don’t seem friendly, maybe never smiling. So you may look in approachable. He may be talking to the other girls because they’re cute, men try to make friends w the cute girls. So I hate to say it you may not be on their level look wise. I don’t know w out seeing you compared to them. Maybe you’re of a particular race that he does t like. Sad but that could also be a possibility. Maybe he does like you but he doesn’t k ow how to talk to you w out looking stupid.
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From what you have said to others, it seems like he is just nervous around you. That's how I get around girls I like. I was into one girl so much l would throw up if she was too close.
It isn’t 100%. But a lot of regular guys will avoid women they actually like if they don’t see a possibility of anything developing, ie: she’s too attractive, interested in other guys or has too many other men interested in her.
Ma'am do let me know one thing are you interested in him? And did you showed him the signs of liking?
Girls just cannot handle it if someone doesn't like them. They completely short circuit... 🙄
I don't know but he has a strong dislike for you for some reason.
Cause he isn’t interested in you
He’s not interested. It’s best to leave him be.
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