Why a guy who is blushing around me would always talk to everybody else but me?

[Anonymous]

[laly520]

awkward shy guy

[Anonymous]

He might feel intimated to approach you.

[Asker]

Yes I’m pretty sure but I don’t know how to talk to him then he tends to fly away but then tries again lol

[Opinion Owner]

That sucks!

[Anonymous]

Do you try talking to him?

[Asker]

Yes but he tends to walk away he seems shy

[Asker]

He looks nervous and stares everywhere around lol

[Opinion Owner]

Okay, well if you try talking to him as well then maybe he just isn’t very interested in being friends. I’ve encountered those people too, where they seem to chat and carry on with everyone but you, they’re awkward around you or seem shy yet don’t talk. I guess it’s not our jobs to understand those people, I’d just focus on the others around me instead if I were you.

[Asker]

Yeah we ll see what’s s going next

[Opinion Owner]

I feel like the implication is he has a crush or romantic feelings for you since he’s blushing or seems shy. Sure that could be the case, but I feel like it’s the latter. You don’t know this guy personally, this is just your interpretation of his actions when they may not be what’s going on in his head. You don’t know if he’s seeing someone or even available, you don’t know how he acts when he’s nervous or if this is just his personality. A lot is unknown, but I don’t think the proper automatic assumption is to think he’s interested, that’s just too generic of a action and as someone who’s been in his position, I’d hate to think that that is what someone else got from how I act around them.

[Asker]

I didn’t détail but he is also very territorial. He doesn’t let other men approach me

[Asker]

Then this is the paradox : he has the « balls »to interfere when other men are too close but doesn’t have enough courage to talk to me directly?

[Opinion Owner]

You do realize these are quite plainly just your interpretations of his actions, right? To you, he’s acting territorial when in reality that may not be the case at all. This isn’t me trying to be biased or make you feel like you’re all wrong, you may very well be correct. This is just my outside view, and knowing how women can get when we take interest in a guy. It’s easy to make more of simple things than they are. I’d personally make more of the fact that you’re usually the one trying to engage him otherwise you don’t get much conversation at all, this says a lot.