Why have I been feeling this way?

[Anonymous]

The mere thought of women in recent times, I’m like a lovestruck tomcat 😭 it’s become distracting. I didn’t even recall feeling this way in my 20s!

[Reapous]

Anything major/moderate change in your life as of late? Job promotion/income raise? Weight loss/fitness success? New haircut/confidence boost? Per chance even a lucky lay? Any of these can make you more aware of yourself and surroundings and eve heighten feelings.

[Asker]

Actually yes quite a bit of positive changes. It’s funny you say that. A new job making much better money, the odd lifestyle upgrade here and there. But also I have been on dating apps recently and while it isn’t a ton of success, I’ve had more than I was ever used to having when I was younger. I’ve been matching with some really stunning women and interacting with them a bit. Not getting attached to any outcomes, but it’s really been a huge boost in confidence.

[Nikki1989]

When you finally grow up, you will get past these juvenile feelings.

[Asker]

Oh come on you’re no fun 😤