Is he leaving me on read on purpose?

[Anonymous]

This guy is a control freak, and always wants the upper hand. I noticed that he sometimes dissapears after my question and gets back after 3-5days. Is it a manipulation tactic used to make me weaker or what?

[Noredcarpet]

I've honestly never known a guy what ever our association to take days to answer, communicate on texts, etc, they work remarkably fast and if not fast then normal speed for the rest of us humans speaking, and steady, you can count on it, and they have great memory too. So if a guy is doing this to you there is something wrong with this picture of a guy. I wouldn't bother.

[Nikki1989]

Christ on a fucking cracker!

[Summeroflove]

Yeah it is…. You can’t win with these people except by cutting them off and only contacting them if you absolutely HAVE to…. I mean something important like you have his baby or contracted a STD you may have given to him. Important…

[goaded]

"This guy is a control freak" - leave him.

I was going to say that read doesn't always really mean read, just that it was displayed before the screen blanked, but in your case I expect he's doing it on purpose.

[MisterPandemonium]

It could be a manipulation tactic.

Or he could just be busy.

Or he could just need a break from you sometimes.

Maybe you give more specifics about when this guy disappears after what kind of questions.

[jazzy34]

Block him and move on with your life. At your age, don’t tolerate that bullshit. That’s a boy. Not a man.

[jazzy34]

YOU take the upper hand by blocking his ass, dusting yourself off, and walking away.

[Anonymous]

Yes and you should dump him now or you’ll regret it later.

[Asker]

why? what would happen later?

[spartan55]

How many posts are you going to write about this guy? So stupid...

[PeachyPie93]

He doesn't like you..
Bock him and find someone better..

[bowenw]

It sounds like he is doing it on purpose. I suggest you block him permanently and find someone that treats you with respect.

[beenherebefore]

This is a pretty clear sign that he's not interested.

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

it all depends on what is for me. also different guys are not the same

[LouRoc]

Yes it is manipulation, making you feel like you don't matter, a form of controllingness that makes you feel guilty and go to him.

[Anonymous]

so you're kind of upset that he won't respond right away

[slatyb]

Why are you wasting time on him?

[Anonymous]

Dump this guy. He’s not worth it.

[beefcakebradybatson]

DUMP DAT DUDE !!!

[MasterKS]

He is taking you too easy.

[Asker]

what do you mean? i dont give in into his tactics and dont do what he says, so he punnishes me with the silence

[MasterKS]

@asker sounds like you didn't understand men even in this age.

[Asker]

could you explain please.. thats why im asking

[MasterKS]

@asker i can explain in one or two lines, it need some conversation. PM me if you want to.

[qwerty2469]

Yes. Nobody is away from their phone for hours

[DishLady]

Probably.