When a guy says he had a good time with you? what does it mean?

[Anonymous]

so I like this guy... and he claims to not like me back but whatever... lol he's REALLY flirty, and I'm the only girl he's flirty to! We usually just do stupid little teases and stuff (for the past 2 months... the more we see each other, the more flirty/affectionate he gets), but today, we hung out at a party, with a bunch of people, and instead of being apart of the party, we hung out together outside on a hammock just in out own little world! but Soon we got really affectionate, and he cuddled with me, and like touched me how couple touch each other... and he laid on me and held my hand and stuff... he almost fell asleep! well he kinda did.. on me.. but it was all good :D then he hugged me a lot, and picked me up! (he NEVER physically picks up girls... at least that I have ever witnessed)... anyways after hanging out with me for 3 hours, when I got home, he texted me "I had a good time with you:)" ... I was like aha I had a good time with you too!... anyways do you think he likes me... ell actually he likes me, its obvious! but will he ask me out soon? or not.. and if not.. why?

[toulouse]

you told him you like him, so you knowing or not knowing if he likes you, won't hcange whether or not hell let you know he likes you. you dint need to figure anything else out-as you have already done your part.

a person can like another person without wanting a relationship.

my guess is, he either told you he doesn't like you, so that when he did all of w/e he did- you won't assume he wants to be with you.

OROR he told you he doesn't like you-because he does and is trying to cover it up.. but to me , he doesn't sound too shy.

on the other hand maybe he's good at expressing himself physically not verbally. on the other hand he didn't have to express anything. he could have just said me too. you made it easy for him, and he went out of his way to be negative.

on the other hand he may have not thought he liked you, then changed his mind.

it can be any of that , all of that, or other things I didn't mention.

but you knowing what it is, isn't going to change whether or not he wants to be with you.. you have told him you like him, so you will have to wait and see.

what did you say exactly-btw. when he said he doesn't like you. what did you say to him that he responded with 'he doesn't like you?'

i suppose after a while if he continues to act this way, you can remind him you are open to dating or w/e.. maybe hell need a reminder.,

he may be a really decent guy, and just have problems trusting people, but genuinely like 'you'... or , he may be a really shallow guy, and just be taking advantage of the fact you like him, to have some no strings attached fun. idk.

[toulouse]

Sorry typos*

'change' 'don't' and only one 'OR' was meant.

[fury542]

Put plainly, he likes you. If he'll ask you out soon, that up to him. But you have already expressed your feelings for him so the ball is in his court.

[domino]

"I had a good time with you" means "I had a good time with you"...

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