Would you consider this "simping"?

[Anonymous]

A girl you're interested in likes you, but is not ready for a relationship at the moment. You just so happen to be a loner whose also not desperate for any relationship, but you continue to talk to her anyway because maybe she'll change her mind in the future. Is this considered simping?

[Gobbyjobby52]

Something similar happened to me a year ago though she eventually said through text when i clarified i respected she wasn't looking for a relationship, she put forwards "Gobbyjobby52 we are not compatible", , i hoped she would change her mind as she was a bit of a flirty girl and had been warm with me for over 5 months. All i can put forward is if you feel pulled out of your centre and like your desperately trying to get their attention and hope that things will change then yes your lowering your own value just to please someone, if you feel like an onlyfans viewer paying for her attention then yes your simping.

[molonski2]

100 % it's Simping
You are working to her agenda.. Fck that , be a man and make it extremely clear that you are not simply available to fit her " commands " .

You are in friend zone , you have already been discarded , grow a pair.

[DishLady]

The term “simping” (like so many other terms) is being overused and misused….


Just bc a gal says she doesn’t want a relationship doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to talk to a guy. Some folks just don’t have time and energy for a full-on relationship. Wouldn’t you rather have someone be honest than to offer only a half-assed effort in making a relationship work?

[queenofcardio]

I consider it as you might be wasting your time

[spartan55]

Depends on how much you are going to talk to her in the 'waiting game'. How much energy are you willing to give that girl?

[Asker]

It's hard to explain. I really like being alone, but at the same time, I do crave romance. So, the energy is rather moderate, and she enjoys hearing from me.

[jshm2]

No, that's just you being a "hanger on". Though it is close to being a "creep".

[Purpleronnie]

That’s not simping that’s just a waste of time. Her loss , move on.

[MissSunshine2]

No. I’d consider it as toeing the line between being persistent and chasing her.

[Ariesman81]

The reality is, until you make your attention scarce, she won't find it valuable. Just is what it is.

[Anonymous]

Only an idiot would consider it "simping" or even use the term.

[beefcakebradybatson]

It's called trying to lay your #boyjoy on her !!!

[Anonymous]

Never heard of that term.

[lilBigPotato]

Em no..