Is he losing interest?

[ivydavis]

I’ve been dating this guy for like a month. We just had our 3rd date 5 days ago. It went rlly well and he text after and said he had a great time and said we should do something soon when I have time if I’m down. I said I should be free after Wednesday this week and he said maybe we can do something wed or Thurs. today is Friday and he didn’t bring it up Wednesday or Thursday but has been texting me more than he was before the 3rd date. And he’s very engaged in text being super sweet and asking questions about me and sharing about himself. I’m confused! It feels like things have become better if anything so why no date plan? He’s a more chill planner but he usually asks if I’m still free for a date a couple days before we go out and he hasn’t brought it up since Monday

[realbiggrin]

I think you may be overthinking it and worrying over nothing. So maybe something came up and he is texting more because he is worrying that you will think he is losing interest.
Solution, ask him, you asked us. Whatever you do, if you really like the guy set up a good habit and communicate open and honestly. And make sure you try to always listen actively not passively, meaning listen to understand not just to reply.

[bowenw]

If he doesn't have a good excuse, like he's a nurse working four 12 hours shifts in a row, he's probably busy with other women.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊

[sage2021]

Well, he did say MAYBE right?

[spartan55]

Is there something stopping you from making plans with him? Did you confirm your availability?

[snermcger]

Young people...

I have a novel idea. Why don't you ask him?

He is a MAN so you don't have to tiptoe around a subject.

Well, I don't know, 'men' these days are kinda like women, so you might, but giver a shot, sweety.

[Alex-Snow]

He may be seeing other girls. Are you two sexually attracted to each other?