What's something nice women can do for men?

[itsnaoxornever]

men know the schtick whether they practise it or not: buy her flowers, hold the door open, walk her to her car. is there anything simple and wholesome like that i can do for men?

i'm also a recovering manhater and genuinely asking so don't say something facetious please

[Chazmatazz269]

Unfortunately, the rules are different for boys and girls. Men can just be nice and we can fairly expect that women aren’t going to hound us just because we smiled and said “hello”.
A lot of women can’t just be nice. Too many men can’t decipher the subtle differences between friendliness and a typical female come-on. Being more direct with potential mates only works for that likely minority of men.
More intimately, far and away the most important things a woman can do are listen and never “interpret” or assume anything. The ridiculous breakdown between what men say and what women hear is a major factor in most heterosexual relationships.
If you want to make him feel loved, ask him nicely to do something and then thank him sincerely for doing it. Men need to feel respected and appreciated. If your own ego can handle it, it’s really easy to do if you just give him a simple task that you don’t really need help with, and then thank him for his help. Men thrive on being of service to people who appreciate them. Have him open the pickles, or grab something off of a high shelf. Ask him to lift something heavy or hang a picture. Ask nicely and thank him sincerely and that man will swim through broken glass for you.

[itsnaoxornever]

thank you !

[sirderpsalot123]

Say "thank you". I know it sounds stupid, but a lot of women almost never say thank you for anything. Its as if we're expected to go above and beyond for our women, but don't deserve any appreciation, or anything in return because she's the prize so we should be grateful she gives us the time of day.

[itsnaoxornever]

easy enough

[sirderpsalot123]

I also like when my girlfriend acts like she's interested in a game I'm playing or an anime I'm watching because I know she doesn't actually care at all 😂

[itsnaoxornever]

chainsaw man right

[sirderpsalot123]

Yes lol

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

We fuck them. That’s all they want, really. And we’d do it more if they were actually any good in bed but they’re not.

[Nikki1989]

Most men respond deeply to feeling appreciated, understood, and chosen, often in ways they don’t say out loud.

[midnightmoon05]

Men are very simple. They really only want to be appreciated and just be kind to them.
they work hard and want to provide. For us women… get be them the peace. Smile, hugs. Sit with them, enjoy a meal with them, smile, listen when they talk and leave them alone sometimes… that’s really all they want.
don’t complain too much about anything.

[NathanDavis]

the first thing would be.. let us know

who are these less of a man? that made you despise actual, real men

or better said, what happened? why waste away in hatred?

[itsnaoxornever]

im not wasting away in hatred. of course everyone i meet is a good person in my eyes until proven otherwise. but every time i think it's going well with a man he ends up saying something that tells me he only wants me for one thing. i'm just frustrated

[NathanDavis]

oh... that

yeah, that does happen often

so you say that you see how these guys do want you for ONLY ONE thing, and those must be quite clear signs too... how about if you see signs that a guy would want to be with you, but not just for that one thing but for all other things too... would you be against that?

or you just don't want none of the thing at the moment

back then when I was in college (I was 20 and my girlfriend at the moment was 19) my ex and I were REALLY into each other and she had the same frustration, lol... "everyone and their grandma" only wanted the thing, from her... but she didn't feel ready and did not want the deed, and for that reason, although she was into me... she didn't want to be with me, in a relationship

and not because of me wanting "the thing" but because when you are really into someone, and there's a lot of affection, and feelings and crazy chemistry... things, end up happening somehow

she told me, she wanted a relationship with me but, there was not going to be "things" happening because she didn't want and she didn't feel ready for it and so I said, yes... Yes, I do want to spend every single day with you as much as I can, even if the thing... doesn't happen, not like I ever asked the thing anyway...

spoiler alert... some weeks later, she did indeed, initiated some things... lol

so... I know what many guys want, and when it is just the one thing "it is disgusting!!" but how about you, do you really know exactly what you want... and what would that imply? in a relationship?

[genericname85]

i would say that largely depends on his love language. i think that's a way more important factor than gender.

[queenofcardio]

Cook him a nice meal

[DryGermanGuy]

Inviting to a home-cooked meal is nice.

[Anonymous]

make them no bake drop cookies