Why is 4 some special number? Why not 3 or 5 or 10?
Anyway, there's not much I wouldn't do for my girlfriend that was in my power to do - and I think that's likely true of her to me as well, though the things within her power aren't exactly the same as mine.
I give her my time and attention. I make sure she is safe (I have taken several measures to increase her safety, at home and in the world). I help keep her home and car in good repair, fixing small problems before they become big ones. I entertain her. I take care of her if she's not feeling well. I comfort her when she's sad or misses her family. I made her an important part of my life, meeting my family and friends, and spending most of our mutual time off together.
I don't consider any of this "special" - in my mind, it's "standard" - it's what you do when you're in a relationship. Luckily, I was able to find a woman who actually appreciates me and these things that I do for her, and doesn't take it for granted that she's "owed" these things. These things are much less of a burden when you feel appreciated.
comfort them, listen to them, care for them, help them whenever they need it.
1) Spend time with her and truly enjoy it
2) Take every chance to make her smile and melt when that smile is for them
3) Understand her, what matters to her and how they can be a part of making that happen
4) Give up something they enjoy but is relatively less important for because she needs them to (aka sacrifice)
comfort them
listen to them
make them laugh
give them space when needed
Well gotta question you there on appropriate.. I understand this is your question, but it sounds like you're asking without an open mind. Which happens to be one of the things I do for women I care about.
What are 4 things women would do for the men they care about?
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