Do women really want equality?

Question

I live in a first world country, and i have dated before, fortunately in my case i chose girls that never gave an issue but a lot do...

1- as a guy you're expected to pay on datesf you dont you're less of a man to... well everyone, plus women refuse to admit it, buying them stuff gets you sex...
2- you have to be the strong one and protect her, and in this day and age shit gets really violent and dangerous real fast.
3- men have to do the approaching and the entire instigating thing
4- 90% of women i met old and young alike want the man to be the breadwinner and have more money, maybe not what the media says but thats what you hear walking the streets.
5- so many women are asking for gentlemen... gentlemen are basically men who treat women with special care...

on the other hand,
1- women refuse to cook, or clean if the guy doesn't do it
2- most refuse ot give birth to more than one kid, two if the guy is lucky
3- colleges are filled with women studying for useless degrees, far more than guys
4- you can't hit women but women can hit you
5- women demand to not be judged based on sex, fiancial worth or their past and to be judged exactly like guys... except guys are judged for the amount of money they make, their status and where they are in life.
6- women want to be as slutty and "liberated" as possible without being judged, but still dont have much to offer in comparison to what they are asking from a man.

some things i dont care, others i will gladly do if she's already my girlfriend, but most things dont make things, it feels to me that women are cherry picking the good things about being a man and demanding to have it without actually offering something that has the same worth... I don't know i am just gonna serach the few, rare women who are cool to be around and get with, i guess it works better for my personality anyways...

Ennista · Accepted Answer

Some women expect men to pay, but if you don't want to pay the full price you can propose separate checks before the meal. If she wants you to pay the whole thing you have the right to say you can't afford it or choose a cheaper place. If she dumps you because of that she's just a gold digger anyway.
I get men protecting women, everyone should carry some form of protection though. Women are usually weaker than men but even I carry a knife.
I would rather a guy approach me than for me to approach a guy. Sometimes guys assume a girl is slutty if she approaches them.
Yes women want men to be the breadwinner usually. We want to know that we are secure and that if we do get pregnant or hurt that the man can support them. Men with good jobs generally are just more stable and less irresponsible.
I think when women say they want a gentleman, sometimes we want someone who will open a door for us but sometimes we just want a guy who won't stare at our tits or ignore us.

OK so yeah a lot of women can't Cook. If you're both working you should both do the cooking and cleaning. If you're working and she's not, she should. There's really no excuse not to Google a recipe. It might not be amazing but it should at least be edible. I cook and clean, I actually enjoy it.
Kids can be scary, what if she gives you 3 kids and you dump her? If she's the stay at home mom and you're not married she could be homeless, which could give you full custody. Show her you'll love and keep her forever, she's more likely to give you those kids you want.
Yeah I understand the college thing. I didn't go to college, waste of money, but my sister has 4 degrees she's not using.
Men can't hit women. Women can't hit men. Equality means nobody gets to hit anyone. Its just usually easier for women to hit men because women are typically weaker. A woman's punch usually leads to a bruise, a mans will usually split skin.
Judgement now.. Yes I understand not wanting to be judged by our past. I understand men not wanting to be judged by their past. I think people should be judged a little by where they are though. You don't work? No place? No car? How long unemployed? Well if I'm in the same boat no judgement. But if I'm not then yes I'll judge you harshly, I don't want to support someone with no aspirations of their own.
Everyone is slutty sometimes. There's just a time and a place. That sort of depends on what their asking. Everyone has flaws, its about accepting the ones you can handle or change.

ScarletAngelic · Accepted Answer

Yes, equality makes it better for both men and women.

1-Nobody should be expected to pay for someone else. Either of you can choose to pay for the other person, but it is a choice not a-given, and you shouldn't bribe someone for sex. When she's ready, she'll want to sleep with you and that won't cost money.
2-Risking your own life to protect her should not be expected. She should be able to take care of herself. There are also many women who would love to help you out as well.
3-Men don't have to do the approaching. If you don't want to do the approaching, you can wait for her to do it.
4-Most women now a days in 'non third world countries' want to work and it's best if both people in a relationship are making money.
5-Most women don't expect special care, and you are not required to treat her with any more or any less respect than she treats you with. Even if she 'wants' it.

1-It's only fair for you both to clean and cook.
2-Having a baby is really hard on a women's body. She should have the say in this one, because it's her body.
3-They're all useful in different ways.
4-You shouldn't hit anyone, and women shouldn't be allowed to hit you either, but if it's in self-defense you should have every right to hit a women back.
5-Nobody should be judged based on those things.
6-I don't really get this one

GoyamGoddess · Accepted Answer

I like a man who makes me feel like I am his queen so that means paying for everything on the first date. Yeah I want to feel safe with my date, but I don't want you to get hurt or be killed because some guy looked at me. Yes you do sorry. I would like for my man to make more money than me so I can raise the children and the like. A gentleman is nice too have.

I would cook, clean, raise the children. I would like to have four or five children. I have a BSN. Why would you hit a woman? Well I am a virgin sooo.

kaylaS91 · Accepted Answer

You could've put in at least a little bit of effort into making your argument, rather than using the views of underdeveloped manbabies (men HAVE to initiate, men HAVE to pay for everything, and be the primary/sole breadwinner) and alongside views of feminazis (ie. 'useless degree, the liberty to be as 'slutty' as men').

In addition to having below grade 1 level grammar/basic knowledge of English...
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Anonymous · Accepted Answer

they "do"" only the good parts. Did you remember how they lost their shit when the military draft started including women? Did they see it as a success? No the fuck they didn't, they all lost their shit and said its a "mans" job and we only want the good equivalent while having the unfair advantages of being a girl

disgustingweebtrash · Accepted Answer

No they don't, no matter how hard they scream for equality they will not behave in the way of "equal"

And when questioned about it such as posting this question, you will get attacked with comments such as

bitter
misogynist
virgin

There are more but those 3 are the main ones.

maiave · Answer

Read the first question and didn’t bother with the rest. Badly hidden misogyny right there. Just another guy who’s blaming women for everything because he doesn’t have anything better to do with his life. Sad, really. But as long as people
Like you stay on sites like this I’m okay with it, if I ever see one of you in real life I’d kill myself

lilaqua · Answer

It's weird because these are an odd mix of traditional values and feminazi ideology. Most women really don't think like this. Effectively all I want in a partner is to be attractive to me and to have a compatible personality.

BipBipLeddus · Answer

I want actual equality, but I'm not a 3rd wave feminist. If I wanna work, he's gonna cook and clean. If he's working, the other way around. I see labor roles, not gender roles.

TheStaleMarshmellow · Answer

"equality" means the same benefits as anyone else but with out the bullshit that comes with it.

Nachowedgie · Answer

No they want all the perks of being a man and a woman at the same time, without having any of the consequences.

Anonymous · Answer

I believe men and women have different roles to play but that we are equal in those roles... if that makes sense? Different strengths, but equal strength overall.

Volvagia · Answer

those women that do that are hypocritical and choose "equality" when it suits them dont tar us all with the same brush fam

CT_CD · Answer

No they don't. They're cherry picking the good things like you said.

Anonymous · Answer

Number 3 and 4, especially 3, I hate and resent the most

Anonymous · Answer

ill say this right now 90% of women dont even care they just wanna live there life in peace

theFantasticJ · Answer

No they just want dick

Sha84 · Answer

femininist do #MeToo

Rangers · Answer

Of course they don't

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