I will never fall in love with any man ever again.. why can’t I move passed him?

[Anonymous]

I don’t ever want to date again after falling for a DL man who hurt me intentionally because I think he may be struggling with his sexuality.. he was so masculine

His twitter for you page is full of trans women (sexually)

It hurts because I’ll never be what he wants and he has emotional and sometimes verbal abusive tendencies…

On his public accounts he follows beautiful well achieved women that are nurses, doctors… nothing less… and a lot of them he knows and they follow him back….

I don’t know how to stop wanting him still after 2 years…. I try to remind myself that he sees me as gum at the bottom of his shoe. Nothing else.

I look at every man with disgust.

[Anonymous]

Your pain is rooted in his intentional cruelty and his inability to be honest about his sexuality and himself.

You are internalizing his coldness as a reflection of your worth, rather than his brokenness.

He is not a prize. He is a person struggling with his own identity who used you to manage his own insecurities.

You deserve someone who is proud to be with you openly, not someone hiding in the dark. Your disgust for men right now is a defense mechanism; it is your brain trying to keep you safe from being hurt again. Give yourself time and distance to heal, and focus on rebuilding your own life outside of this toxic situation..

Good luck

[Nikki1989]

It’s self‑protection, not prophecy. People often say they’ll never love again right before they eventually do — not because they forget the past, but because they grow beyond it.

[Mariogirl09]

It'll be okay kiddo

[jahaims]

You aren't emotionally healthy