Do you think teaching boys the truth about life will make them stronger?

[Anonymous]

We need to teach our boys the truth about this world to prepare them for reality.

The reality is if you're a man you're alone in this world, the only thing you're good for is providing but other than that nobody cares about you, nobody loves you, nobody wants to hear about your issues, there is no help for men.

You don't mean anything to anyone.

Nobody will be there for you

Nobody cares about your emotions.

Don't open up, doing this will only make people look down on you, remember you're a man.

The sooner we teach boys this the stronger they will be as men

[Chazmatazz269]

Coddling boys does not prepare them for adult life in the real world. Only females grow up to be handed things for no effort or investment of their own. Most males have to fight tooth and nail for everything, and still they don’t get to keep most of it. That’s life.

[Anonymous]

To be honest, I struggle with self-harm, and the only reason I’m still here is because I’m the breadwinner of the family. I don’t know what would happen if I ended my life. There are times when I just go quiet, and those thoughts of ending it always come up.

[LazerBean]

So you don't/will not love your sons? Yikes. What you described is a personal problem, not a man proballem.

[Asker]

It's actually a fact of life and if you're not a man you wouldn't know anything about it. You don't matter if you're a man

[Shrimpenjoyer]

You should stop giving opinions here

[LazerBean]

Y'all need to calm down, y'all talk too much for people who didn't grow up with their father

[LazerBean]

The opinion of a promiscuous person is of no more consequence than the opinions of a dog. Keep crying like the illegitimate hold you are

[Shrimpenjoyer]

So you don't hear your mom's opinions?

[LazerBean]

Well could you be less obvious about your projections 😂 I'm not promiscuous so obviously my mother was not either. You are promiscuous, which means at least one of your parents were too. Yuck 🤮

[Abbycado]

Oh god. Another sob story. Anons aren’t men. They are cowards. @Agape93 lol

[Asker]

Good job at proving my point

[Agape93]

She's commenting on YOU, dummkopf. Not other men

[Abbycado]

Yes, just you. You shouldn’t be teaching any men a single thing given you don’t even have the balls to show a made up username.

[Asker]

@Agape93 sorry but this is the same reaction men get when they talk, she's proving my point

[Asker]

You're part of the problem.
Also this reaction is exactly what men receive if they talk

When was the last time you checked if a men is okay, nobody cares if you're a man.

[Abbycado]

Go have a boo hoo in the basement. The real men have girls. Mine does lol.

[Asker]

You have no place to talk as you don't know what it's like to be a man.

[Asker]

and this is why men kill themselves.

[Abbycado]

Why? Because they blame all women for their shortcomings? That’s a you problem. Not a man’s problem.

[Asker]

Making it about women, always the same thing, a man speaks, you make it about women. You're showing exactly why a man should just keep everything to themselves

Not once was women mentioned but you found a way to make it about women

This happens each and every time a man speaks

[Shrimpenjoyer]

What you mean "have girls"?

[Abbycado]

Men that are perpetually whining about how it’s all someone else’s fault, go out and find a girl no problem. I see it all the time from the 50k people on campus. People from all walks of life, races and etc finding a partner.

[Asker]

It was only said you have to be a man to understand you're making it about women.

This is what men have to face when they talk, they're either made fun of, told to man up, or it get told about women this and women that.

Men don't matter

[Agape93]

Oh for fucks sake. @OlderAndWiser can you educate this guy on how an actual grown man thinks, because women never get through to him

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Ok but you should rephrase your comment cause it sounds bad.
You are insulting all men who struggle getting into relationships with that, they are not allowed like that.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

*they are not allowed like that

[Asker]

You keep showing why men and mens issues don't matter.

This is the reaction men usually get when they talk

[Agape93]

Nobody's talking to you, shrimp. Go fuck off somewhere else

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Lol I keep typing wrong I meant they are not all like that

[Abbycado]

@shrimpenjoyer no. I’m talking about guys like this that blame us for everything, not guys that try, present the best version of themselves and give honest effort, yet struggle.

That’s not fair if they don’t get a shot. If someone is kind and we click, I would give it a shot. Guys like this that bitch and moan and blame all women aren’t worth our time.

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[Asker]

So you red everything i said and made it about blaming women. Thank you, this should be an example to men as why talking is not a good idea.

[Asker]

@Shrimpenjoyer notice how nobody blamed women for anything and the focus is still being taken away from what men face and it's being made about women

This is what happens each and every time a man talks, I've seen it so many times in life.

Proof that you don't matter if you're a man

[Asker]

Love how you came into a post about men's issues and made it about women.

This is what life is like if you're a man.
Men's issues do not matter and they always get shut down and get told a about women.

I can't even count how many times I've seen this.

A lot of men are not okay but will not talk and this is one of the reasons why

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Alright

[Shrimpenjoyer]

You matter bro, you have a lot to offer.

[Asker]

@Shrimpenjoyer from a guy to a another guy you too bro

[HollyK21]

Why act as if your sole experience speaks for the masses? It sounds like your reality sucks and you just want every man to adopt that negative mentality. Just miserable.

[Asker]

You wouldn't know if you're not a man, this is just the truth if you're a man and why men kill themselves

[HollyK21]

It may be your truth but not every man’s.

[Asker]

Please i ask you (if you're willing to) to just sit down with men and listen. A lot of men are not okay and can not talk about it.

[Agape93]

Oh my god, why do guys keep pushing this bullshit? Look just because you have no game and are lonely, doesn't mean anything to the majority of men.

[Abbycado]

Yep, the “I should be entitled” attitude even when he is a miserable person. Who wants to be with that?

[Agape93]

Nobody

[Asker]

It's actually the truth and this is exactly the reaction men receive it they talk.

You don't know what men are going through because you don't care to listen.

Men know what I'm talking about.
Nobody cares if you're a man

[Asker]

Yep this is what men get told when they talk

You are proving me right

You don't care about men, nobody does.

[Asker]

Did you stop to ask, did you ever check if a man is okay.

This is what men face.

You're not willing to sit down and listen.

[Agape93]

Yeah otherwise I'd be a shitty partner to. my boyfriend and a shitty friend to my loved ones.

That's what the minority like you face.

Oh I do. You just insist on pushing a bullshit narrative.

[Agape93]

@DryGermanGuy sorry to. drag you here, but do I check on how you're doing, what you're up to and such?

[Asker]

But if I came off as rude in the comments in anyway I hope you accept my apology, if not I understand.

Or if you felt like I'm insulting women, i swear that was not my intention.
I'm just talking about what men face and I can assure you a lot of men are not okay and nobody is willing to listen

But from my heart I want to say I'm truly sorry if I upset you in anyway
@agape93
@abbycado

[DryGermanGuy]

@Agape93
Certainly can't complain about you or the other girls that are asking. :-)

[Agape93]

Thanks babe

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I don't know about stronger, the truth about life does make me stranger though

[CuriousMufuxka]

Hey you left out being expected to reach tall things and carry heavy shit!

[Ariesman81]

Experience says you can preach until you're blue in the face, but consequences are always the teacher.