Do you think it's more important to teach children to be humble or to be proud of who he/she is or does it depend on if it's a guy or girl?

Anonymous
Just looking for opinions. I think both are important to a degree and I have my own opinion but I want to hear others. No judgment here. Try to pick a polling option. If you really really can't, please comment.
Humble. You're imperfect, you have room to improve, be free from ego and work hard
Proud. You're gifted, you can do it, believe in yourself
Humble for girls, proud for guys
Humble for guys, proud for girls
Don't try to teach anything related to pride or humility
Don't try to teach children anything. Let them figure it out.
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Do you think it's more important to teach children to be humble or to be proud of who he/she is or does it depend on if it's a guy or girl?
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