Do you think it's better to be teaching children that they're a 10/10, less than that, or does it depend on if it's a guy or girl?

[YungBahlr]

This question is framed weird, but thanks to your clarification in the comments, I’m going to say gently let them know if it’s something they can control at that age.


Children more than anything else, just want their parents validation and approval. Some people even go their whole lives searching for it if they had withholding parents in childhood. Because of this, it’s seriously essential to teach your kids that they are valuable and important even if they don’t always do what you want.


That being said, the long process of brain development leaves kids lacking self-awareness for about 10+ years and a bunch of other important skills until you teach them. Even when they’re older, if you haven’t already set the groundwork in helping them develop things like healthy emotional regulation, integrity, perseverance etc. can you really blame them when they aren’t perfect? So help them improve their shortcomings and explain why it’s important, but also just make sure to be tactful and act appropriately to the circumstances. 👍🏻

[Flower7]

A. I feel like having confidence is very important.

[Кураж]

Pretty sure children shouldn't be worrying about how they look, period.
Besides, those numbers are supposed to score physical attractiveness of an adult, I'd personally question the motivations of anyone who tries to apply that scale to minors.

[Andres77]

Be realistic and practical.
Speaking the Truth in love.
You want the best for them.
They need an accurate perspective of reality.

[RuthlessAggression]

Perfect 10 is not only redundant, there's just no such thing as perfect. As much as Trump tries to say so

I also don't understand what the rating system is anyway. How is a 4 any better than a 3

So, no, I don't think anyone should be rating anyone. It's for idiots

[BarryLiverstone]

Teach children they are loved and they have value. Teach them skills and encourage them in their passions so they can gain confidence and be there for hugs when they fail

[Waldoe]

tell them that you Love them...

[In_Trance]

Don't lie to people