What would you do if you found out your spouse was teaching your child redpill philosophy?

[Lookingforthetruth]

So how would you feel if your spouse was teaching your son/daughter redpill information when they hit puberty and begin finding members of the opposite sex attractive.

Some information that comes from redpill include:

- Men and women have SMV and RMV which may not match up to be the same.

- SMV may only yield you sex if you are a woman but not necessarily a relationship.

-RMV may giver you access to women that otherwise wouldn't pick you for casual sex if you are a man.

-As man, a woman will only associate with you as long as she has something to gain from said arrangement.

- Most women hate being treated too nicely and worshipped. Calling a woman out on her bs and talking back at her if she shows disrespect will yield you better results.

-The wall exist for women and quality dating options go down the older you get.

-Just because a guy has sex with you does not mean that you are at his level.

-Men don not care about a woman's finances, number of degrees she has or amount of properties she owns.

-Just because a woman is willing to marry/or have LTR with you does not mean she loves you.

-Women are willing to sleep with a guy she finds attractive within 3 dates. If she is making you wait then she just isn't that into you and likely will use sex to control your behavior if you ever get into a relationship with her.

- The more women you sleep with is likely to produce a domino effect that results in even more women wanting to sleep with you.

-Women aren't interested in listening to your negative emotions (e. g. sadness, anxiety, frustration).

- Men who will seriously date you as a woman are often the ones you think are beneath you and ironically is your looks match.

POLL QUESTION: Would you divorce your spouse if you found out they were teaching your son/daughter redpill?

Yes

No

[IceCreamSandwich]

Well I would try to talk to her about it first, and see if we could come to an understanding or at least an agreement (not to go behind each other's back or teach our child *as facts* things that the other strongly disagrees with, in part). If not then, I would probably choose to separate and re-evaluate the whole situation. If a little time passed and we still couldn't begin to fix things, I would likely move to begin divorce, yes. If there is not at least one step we can take in unity or towards unity in an area as important as raising our child, then the relationship is already broken and will only go downhill from there. Sure, this enforces some of the red pill, but not all of it is wrong in the first place. It's not the education with red pill that I take issue with. It's the incredibly disrespectful execution and tone of that education.

[MCheetah]

I'd give her the best night of sex of her entire life, for being Mother of the Year. "Super oral," and every other single thing she wanted. I wouldn't divorce them at all (assuming we were even married to begin with.)

And linking JustPearlyThings on GAG? Sweet. That's one based-ass six foot tall ginger woman.

[inhua]

nothing wrong with it. the red-pill is just a series of facts, stats, data and anecdotes that is critical for their navigation in this treacherous world.

how the child chooses to use this information is entirely different than knowing the information itself.

most people's understanding of the red-pill is just surface level stuff similar to feminism i. e. gender equality but upon deeper inspection it's a lot more complex than that plus the red-pill is mostly true, albeit cynical if you can't put your feelings aside but true nonetheless.

also the red-pill isn't gendered by the way. women can benefit from the red-pill too. for those women who aren't in denial, they should know by now that their looks dictate the level of treatment they get from others, they would know that if a guy sleeps with them, he doesn't necessarily want a relationship etc. this will save women a lot of time and heartache as they navigate the minefield. heck, the whole "nice guys" issue is a red-pill concept itself.

sooner or later, your child will find out the truth about how the world works and when that happens a lot of things can go wrong. better to teach them how the world and how to handle it than throwing them into the fire and hope they learn it the brutal way.

[Chazmatazz269]

Depends on how they’re going about it. If the entire conversation is qualified using terms like “my experience suggests”, and “some people think”, that’s fair. Time would be better spent teaching a kid the importance of self respect and respect for others though, to be honest.
There’s a curiosity that i’ve detected about “red pill” philosophy. Many of the people who espouse it also espouse “traditional values”. Seems a bit hypocritical, no?
If you prefer traditional mates, date traditionally. They are out there. If you adopt these modern principles of dating, then you’re only going to get the attention of more progressive potential mates. And it’s probably not going to be the kind of attention you want from the kind of person you want. Ell oh ell! There’s nothing wrong with protecting yourself with useful information, but shooting yourself in the foot isn’t helpful or protective. If you’re not recognizing when you’re contributing to your own faults and foibles, then you might as well choose abstinence. Otherwise you’re just going to become more bitter, and it will be mostly your own fault.

[shaysh87]

[-Women are willing to sleep with a guy she finds attractive within 3 dates. If she is making you wait then she just isn't that into you and likely will use sex to control your behavior if you ever get into a relationship with her.]

The red pill guys who say this are the very same guys who shame women for being sluts.

[Subarugirl]

I wouldn't have married my spouse if he believed in that misogynistic bull shit.

There are a lot of issues the things you have stated, and some of them are blatantly incorrect. Men do care about how much a woman makes and this study proves that in general, they do care.

Spousal Breadwinning Across 30 Years of Marriage and Husbands’ Health: A Gendered Life Course Stress Approach - Kristen W. Springer, Chioun Lee, Deborah Carr, 2019 (sagepub. com)

[fembotnpc777]

SMV means sexual market value. It applies to everyone, male or female, in the sexual marketplace. I can't tell if you're illiterate or just skimmed the topic and went with it or both? Maybe do a little research?

[Lookingforthetruth]

I see your a bot.

[loveslongnails]

I've never met a person who believes or ascribes to ALL of those things! N e v e r !!! Nor can I imagine that my S. O. would and I would not know where we stood on this brouhaha and be in a relationship. I also can't imagine that assuming we were in basic agreement on our viewpoints, one of us would change radically to another viewpoint.

[slatyb]

I wouldn't have married them. We would talked enough that I would know their values and beliefs. I figure that people who believe any sort of nonsense are likely to believe whatever sounds good.

[TroyDT2]

Teaching sons about pregnancy traps and daughters about guys who will say anything to get laid are proper. Maybe when they get older a bit about the potential for divorce disasters. Other than that, I'd have a problem with it.

[Sixgunsound]

I am not opposed to my wife teaching my daughters how the world works, I just want them to have accurate information.

[letuswaltzforthedead]

That's something that I would talk to my partner before actually having kids but no, I wouldn't be in a relationship with a man like tha

[LazerBean]

If that is what red pill mean, then no; I will not teach my children anything that promotes whorishness and fatherless behavior.

[NathanDavis]

not even likely... fortunately, none of this nonsense has ever been part of my life, or the people in my life

[dustybiker]

You can’t raise your kids in a bubble. Especially these days. Breathe.

[skilled_jellyfish]

If the opposite of "putting women on a pedestal" is "red pill" then I'll take red pill every time.

[FilmGuy93]

If my wife was teaching my kids the redpill, I would high-five her and then breed her like the good trad-wife personal slut I groomed her to be

[Sevenpointfive]

if she knew i didn't want that than yes! don't put crap in my furbabies

[Anonymous]

Any reasonable marriage should have far more momentum than to divorce over such a superficial subject.

You may not like the messaging but there are better reactions than divorce.

[genericname85]

a perspon who'd do that couldn't be my spouse. like there's no way these opinions and tendencies stay hidden untill we are spouses.

[bayoubob]

You don't even know what redpilling means!!! LOLZ.

[Chthou95]

Id be teaching my son about the red pill and how society, women & dating actually work. So i doubt my spouse would be the one teaching it. a lot of blue pillers obviously won't want anyone teaching the red pill