What do you think about biracial girls who tend to hate themselves? Unattractive?

[Freetobe007]

Biracial people who are mixed with black tend to have self hate issues. Based on what I've seen ,when a biracial person hates themselves, they are usually either half Asian or half black. Like they have one Asian parent and one white parent or one black parent and one _______ *insert ethnicity there* parent. This post was actually inspired by two female biracial users here who are notorious for going around and subliminally or outright calling African features ugly although they have African ancestry.

My thoughts? I think it's pathetic. A female like that is going to make a piss poor mother figure because she doesn't even know how to love herself and she's ignorant. She will most likely be teaching her children ignorance therefore contributing something ugly to humanity no matter how whitened up she is, wishes she is, or likes to believe she is. If I was a dude, I'd be unattracted because who tf wants a knock-off version of a white girl? lol What guy really wants to be the one to put up with some in denial biracial girl who tells herself that she's light skinned, even if her skin tone is much darker compared to non-black people?

In general, I think these type of females are a disgrace to humanity. They are the true issues with the world and it's not because of their physical features. It's because of what they contribute to society. They can't get their sh*t together mentally and it's apart of a domino effect that leads to an effed up society and a black community that's falling apart.

Your thoughts? What is your opinion on biracial females and males who hate themselves and belittle African ancestral features to feel better about their own painful insecurities?

[TheDigitalSaint]

The only person who can change is the one inside their own mind and soul. Everyone should make an effort to look their best, and sooner or later, combined with a personality, there's a good chance someone WILL FIND YOU ATTRACTIVE. For instance, I have a slender build and am not really wide or bulky. Some girls like the Hunk look, but I'm not for them. That's okay, that's their choice. That being said, some girls like guys with darker features and love my brown eyes and hair. Those are the girls I focus on, not the ones who aren't attracted in the first place. I always try to look my best no matter what and roll with whomever finds mutual attraction, instead of try to beat myself up for what some girls don't want.

[Prof_Don]

I slightly disagree on the reason, but your points I fully agree on.

I don't think that the disgust for that race's features is due to self-hate.

I think that hatred is due to a superiority complex, as in because they either have white ancestry, or have some other ancestry in their blood besides fully black, that they are BETTER than those who either don't have white ancestry ("white is the supreme race" idea), or those who have full black ancestry (because "any race is better than black").

[Freetobe007]

Well what's interesting is when the person in question has painfully mediocre looks, due to the genes their actual parents passed down, and they have to rely on some mistaken superiority complex in order to feel good about themselves.

[LovelySerene]

I'm half black, half white...I wouldn't say that I hate myself, but I have some personal issues with being black, just because my father abandoned me at age 11, I still stay in contact with that side of my family and I love them very much. But I also don't go aground saying that I hate myself, because I don't, I love myself, and I don't deny being black...

[MeridiansAAngel]

Well, I'm confused by the question. are they being racist towards the black parts of their body or insecure about themselves? being mixed myself, I do have insecurities, as everyone does, but its not just a black or white part.

-love Sosa

[Freetobe007]

They are subliminally and/or outright being racist towards black people, belittling, and degrading black features. Human beings are going to have their insecurities; that's normal. But when you strart projecting your own insecurities on other people because you don't like being in your own skin that's unnacceptable.

[MeridiansAAngel]

Oh yeah, that's crazy and pointless. they can't change their skin or history so what's the point of complaining. and it makes the rest of our race look bad.

-love Sosa

[Freetobe007]

Yeah, my acnestors didn't lose their lives, lose their African roots, and be oppressed for over a century for some ungrateful, self hating, mixed bitches to degrade African ancestry. It's not cool.

[TheUglyOne]

lol let me help end your insecurities. You're one hell a beautiful young woman!

[Freetobe007]

@ TheUglyOne, I find it hilarious how you have pasted that mask over your face lol! you can't be that bad!

[Freetobe007]

I mean, a Michael Myer's mask? lol, really? :P

[MeridiansAAngel]

(: goofy

-love Sosa

[TheUglyOne]

aw thanks ha ha yeah I suppose my wife doesn't think I'm that bad :P

actually I got the idea for this mask from Laura Branigan's "Self Control" music video.

[Morningglory3]

I think they're still finding themselves. It doesn't help when one side of the family or people from one race say the biracial person is attractive because of the "white" or whatever in them.

[nevergivinup]

I tend to stay away from people who hate themselves. Regardless of there Race. It gets very exhausting to have to build someone up and make them feel better constantly. We all have bad days which I can forgive. But constantly hating on yourself and whining about your race and ancestry. I would run the other direction as fast as I could.

[6Paul11]

I'm half Asian and half white, and really have very little love for either ethnic group. By love, I mean that I don't embrace that side of me.

I look more Hispanic and identify with that ethnic group more than any other. I have way more in common with Hispanics than whites or asians.

In general, I have found white people and Asian people to be more rude and pretentious towards me than lots of other groups.

[Freetobe007]

whaaaaat!? Asian-ness is so beautiful! :D one of my best friends is half Japanese and it's so cool getting an inside look into her culture! Asian culture can be so vibrant and interesting. You should be proud!

[6Paul11]

I'm actually half japanese too.

Sure, I like sushi and Asian food, but most Asians that I know are snobby towards me. I feel more Hispanic than asian. I speak Spanish, listen to Spanish music, date Hispanic girls, shave my head, and even look Hispanic. They are just much nicer people.

It's just hard to appreciate a culture when they don't really appreciate you.

[Freetobe007]

Well, I think you need to attach responsibility where it's due, to the specific individuals who didn't embrace you. All of the Japanse alive didn't reject you lol a few snobby people did. So I don't think it's fair for you to dismiss Japanese culture because of a few bad apples!

Have you been to Japan? My parents used to live there! :D Apparently, most of the people there are very friendly. I've met people straight from Japan and they're some of the most respectful, nice people I've ever met

[TheUglyOne]

On the whole, I've found bi-racial people to be among the most attractive people out their, often inheriting the best of both ethnicities/races.

I can't wait to have biracial kids lol.

[Freetobe007]

Please don't go inflating some already giant egos around here lol

[TheUglyOne]

lol fair enough, but some egos around here can use a little inflating. ;)

[Freetobe007]

no, they can't! some people around here are so big headed, if their egos inflate anymore,they'll start knocking the nearest sh*t over!

idk how some people can be so cocky yet so insecure

[TheUglyOne]

No, I know what you mean, but it saddens me when young women who really are attractive can't see themselves as beautiful. It's just not right so I do my part to uplift them. There's one here I have in mind, but I won't name her because I respect her. She's getting better though. :)

[rambleon71]

First off you should nevr by

[johari]

Its sad to hear