She said "you must think I'm a prude" I said I didn't think men liked you. She got upset and told me to leave her alone. Was that a major insult?

[Anonymous]

[HollyK21]

Just put the shoe on the other foot for a moment. If a woman said “I didn’t think other women like you”, how exactly would you interpret that?

[Asker]

Honestly It wouldn't bother me. I thought we. were friends so I roasted her like I would do my guy friends.

[HollyK21]

Here’s a bit of advice — stop treating women like men. We are not the same.

[Asker]

Got it. I was just trying to treat her like one of the guys.

[HollyK21]

So what would make you think she wants to be treated like one of the guys? Have you ever had female friends and were they all comfortable with being treated like men? Just trying to understand your mindset here…

[Nikki1989]

How would we know? Some context would help here.

[Anonymous]

She's feeling insecure. Reassure her that you enjoy her presence and aren't judging her values.