Do guys really find sparkly, shiny eyes on a girl attractive?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

So I was on a date with that German man, it was lovely… I hope he felt the same way.

Because he had very nice eyes and I kind of forgot everything I wanted to say and ask and was sitting there like an idiot laughing at his jokes and looking at him , haha.
He told me I am beautiful 🥰

And then suddenly he told me “Do you have contact lenses? Because your eyes are so sparkly and shiny. “

I was flattered. And I hope you guys do like sparkly eyes?

At the end of the date he hugged me and said “Good night, little lady. Text me when you get home.”

and when I asked him about his dreams , he also told me that he wants to find a girlfriend and have children before 35. He’s 30.

I think I like him!

He told me next time I should make him my favorite Georgian meal though!

He’s the total opposite of me, he’s organized, disciplined, a clean freak. I am scattered, undisciplined and always forget where I put things at home. I also have a housekeeper clean for me every other week because it’s cheap.

Updates

4 mo

He also said “Show me your Georgian food”
I heard he said “Show me your Georgian foot”
And asked him “Wow, you have a foot fetish?”
He laughed a lot but I was so embarrassed!!! 😂😂😂

I wanted to be decent this one time on a date and not dirty minded!

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4 mo

Before we met he told me he was only looking for something serious - yet I couldn’t have been any less unserious! Gosh!

[Finchie40]

Yes, one of my biggest attractions to a girl , is her beautiful eyes , it pretty much stems down to how she looks at me , especially if she finds me attractive or she wants to rip my clothes off , her eyes can indicate a lot without words. The eyes is one of the top features we see on someone, because we see it all the time , especially when talking to someone. So eyes can indicate a lot of things about that person , just by the way they look at you. I can be in a room filled with people and at times I can see if a girl is checking me out from across the room , just by the way she looks at me with her eyes and her body language , only if I catch her looking my way , Most girls’ are shy and at times it can be hard knowing if she is checking me out or not , so it does happen from time to time , basically letting me know she is interested just by her eyes and if I find her beautiful to my eyes , I will approach her and introduce myself , unless she beats me to it. I can’t read a girls’ mind , per se but I can pretty much pick up on whether she is interested in me or not by her eyes. The eyes are also a turn on in bed as well , by the way she looks at me when having sex

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nice. Do you think it’s their attraction to you that makes them sparkly?

[Finchie40]

Yes , when someone is attracted to you and you are attracted to them , everything is sparkly lol

[Finchie40]

A girls’ eyes can make me melt by how she looks at me , why it’s common to hear , I want to get lost in those eyes

[This_is_me_86]

Does it help with a certain eye colour?

[RavVid]

Girls get big eyes when they respect you and they sparkle too.

It's a pretty good sign. I think we unconsciously recognize we're on rather than consciously appreciating the aesthetics. The unconscious mind drives sexual response in my view.

Like I came home and my girlfriend had her girlfriends over. They looked at me with big wide eyes, so I was pretty sure girlfriend had been regaling them with stories of my sexual pecadillos.

I got later confirmation of that. Girls discuss men in much the same way as farmers discuss bulls.

[RavVid]

Thanks for a mho.

[DishLady]

"Sparkling eyes" just means that you were enjoying his company. So yes, generally speaking a guy will like that you're enjoying his company. "Dead eyes" indicate that you're not engaged or interested in the guy at all and signals that things should not move forward.

[MontBlanc]

Oh absolutely.. 😆✨

There’s something about eyes that catch the light, it just makes them look alive and full of energy.

It’s like a little spark of personality shining through!..

[RavVid]

Indeed. It can be just from excitement but I surely like a bright eyed girl.

[DryGermanGuy]

Sure! It's another instance of pussy in boots! :-D

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

As a representative of Germany, do you think this date went well? 😂

[DryGermanGuy]

I would think so, apart from the foot fetish mishap, of course! :-o

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Did I ruin everything? 😭

[DryGermanGuy]

No, no. Where one accent meets a different accent, there are some linguistic accidents to happen. We Germans know that.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

There was another situation -
We also talked about his hobbies, his family, he told me about his childhood. Then we joked about world wars and how his great grandpa fought for Germany and mine for the Soviets. Then he said “I once found the strangest thing in his room - guns!”
I said “Ugh. I’ve found stranger things in my great grandpa’s.”
He asked “what?” And me being silly, told him I found cards of naked women but kept it as a secret being so shocked and that I wished I had found the gun “
He said I should have kept them and I rolled my eyes!
I am stupid! I am so stupid!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh and we were joking that I gained 3 kg on my trip back to my country because of delicious food and I bought a home treadmill immediately, he said “But you look so skinny already” and then he touched my belly and said “Oh yeah, I can see that. How many months pregnant are you?” 😂😂😂 I told him “You must have been a very annoying brother to your older sister growing up.” Then I touched his belly too and told him “You’re not any less fat either!”
Were we too friendly and childish? 🙈 We laughed, but I am overthinking everything.

[DryGermanGuy]

You and the overthinking, oy vey. You should carry a hip flask with you and whenever the overthink looms, take a swig to relax.

[LiamS95]

• Well it sounds like you're both attracted to each other which is a good thing to start with. Being opposites can either go well because your good habits can rub off on to each other or drive you crazy.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

My ex was my opposite too… The logical, disciplined, organized, quietly confident, very chill, very grounded and laid back guy. We turned each other crazy.

[CalmUntilAbused]

Well... I guess they do look attractive. However, and it is very much personal to me, I'd rather the sparkle only showed up when we are alone together (not necessarily intimate, just alone together). The world we live in is a hellhole as of now, if a girl had sparkly, shiny eyes while perceiving all this, I would kind of suspect her of psychopathy. The gothic kind of gloom work best for me, unless we are alone together and there is a reason for us to be happy.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Psychopathy? Why 😅

[CalmUntilAbused]

@lafemmefatale_1 If someone can look at all this chaos and suffering with a sparkle in their eyes... Well, it could also be sociopathy, I suppose... 😄

[OlderAndWiser]

Sounds like a great first date. I’m sure you’ll see him again soon!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

What about my unserious foot fetish remark? Which made me feel so embarrassed?

[OlderAndWiser]

If a woman mentions something sexual on a First or second date, it only means that she is comfortable with sex.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We also talked anbout his hobbies, his family, he told me about his childhood. Then we joked about world wars and how his great grandpa fought for Germany and mine for the Soviets. Then he said “I once found the strangest thing in his room - guns!”
I said “Ugh. I’ve found stranger things in my great grandpa’s.”
He asked “what?” And me being silly, told him I found cards of naked women but kept it as a secret being so shocked and that I wished I had found the gun “
He said I should have kept them and I rolled my eyes!
I am stupid! I am so stupid!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh and we were joking that I gained 3 kg on my trip back to my country because of delicious food and I bought a home treadmill immediately, he said “But you look so skinny already” and then he touched my belly and said “Oh yeah, I can see that. How many months pregnant are you?” 😂😂😂 I told him “You must have been a very annoying brother to your older sister growing up.” Then I touched his belly too and told him “You’re not any less fat either!”
Were we too friendly and childish? 🙈 We laughed, but I am overthinking everything.

[OlderAndWiser]

You are definitely overthinking this. Sounds like you both had fun. You’ll hear from him again soon.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I did hear from him, we did chat nicely after I got home 😄 Just still overthinking.

But thanks ☺️

[AviatorTom]

A woman's eyes are the gateway to her soul. Sparkly eyes indicate an intelligent woman who loves life. Who wouldn't find that attractive?

Maybe you'll change your mind about this guy. He's a keeper. Enjoy the next date.

[Master_Debator]

I'll probably pass. If I can see the white below and above the eye in your eye... I'm not fucking with you. Who the fuck puts that much energy to open their eyes like that?

Serious question... who does that? People I don't want to deal with do that. Certain emotions and shit make them do that. Fuck that shit... not my emotions and not my problem.

[dynamicyandere]

Beautiful eyes are a big plus on any girl. One can really get lost gazing into them. It can really enhance intimate and romantic moments. ✨

[snowboarder720]

Eyes are always attractive.
Just don’t EVER use bedazzle stickers your teeth like I know some women do. Like… wtf..

[Still-alive]

They likely add to her overall beautiful face yeah ;)

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nice nice 🤩 Whatvdo you think of my date? 😁

[Still-alive]

lol that stuff only works because you're attracted to him :P

[Alex757]

Sparkling blue eyes are my favourite! They are the most attractive

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

He has sparkling blue green eyes. I myself have sparkling black 😂

[Alex757]

I need a girlfriend with sparkly blue eyes, its like looking into a pool of water, very cool & calming

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Wish you luck finding one!

[Alex757]

Thank you! Thats sweet of you to say

[This_is_me_86]

I have sparkly blue/grey eyes 😊

[Alex757]

@This_is_me_86 oh thats nice 🤠 are you single?

[Likes2drive]

Of course, we like those type of eyes I usually call them bright eyes like when women have either really blue eyes or really green ones. I have blue eyes myself.

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes we do and he's right you are beautiful. I hope it goes well for you

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thank you ☺️ Do you think it was a fun first date?

[Bklynbadboy12]

Yes he's definitely gonna call you back. When he does would you go on a second date with him

[7Phoenix7]

We might be related lol…

Not only do we have a similar taste in men. We both always forget where we put things at home… and we are overthinking everything.

[spartan55]

You are dating Gunther, the suave German. 😁

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

And you are cheering on me! 😅😍

[spartan55]

I can't help you if you bring your foot fetish into it... 🤣🤣

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I don’t have a foot fetish 😄😄😄

[spartan55]

Gunther thinks you do... Lol

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

🤣🤣🤣 🤦🏻‍♀️

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I like the way it sounds. Like you guys already have some chemistry.

[Anonymous]

Oh so things with the F1 driver didn't pan out?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Didn’t go. He leaves tomorrow, so what’s the point. This guy is here to stay and has a good heart and serious intentions. ☺️

Didn’t expect you to comment and not try be n rude with your words :P You feeling good today?

[Massageman]

The sparkly eye certainly don't hurt the look.

[Nikki1989]

Absolutely. 100%.

[Jeff51]

Yesss. I love blue eyes.

[fish5505_87]

I like eyes very much, sparkly and shiny, yes!

[Jerre]

Yes I do find it attractive

[Jerre]

@lafemmefatale_1 Thank you for the Like

[Anonymous]

Not unless I like her face.

[Grond21]

Oh yes, that was a big compliment

[Grond21]

No pun intended, but you dipped your toe in the water of teasing for more sexual things, but you did it in a flirty way. I think he found that attractive also.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Tease I am! But I wanted to be a good girl on this date!!! And now I feel bad!

[Grond21]

No no! As crude as the saying is, men want a woman who is a lady in the street but a freak in the bed. You being comfortable with more sexy teasing while knowing not to go straight into and being a good girl is hinting at exactly that.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I am as dirty minded as they come, but I don’t want it to be leaking on a very first date… I want to be a normal girl…

[Grond21]

You didn't show dirtiness, you just hinted at it. Like a man who is wealthy, showing that he is more comfortable with expensive things. You don't really know how much money he has or why he is comfortable with the cost, but it hints at something that's attractive.

And you did it within the air of being a good girl. That is potent

[Grond21]

Regarding your latest update... that is completely backwards. I'm not judging you by the way. Because when he said he was only looking for something serious, it didn't mean a serious person, it meant a committed person. So if you are interested in being in a long-term, committed, monogamous relationship, then that's what he was talking about.

Plus an emotional woman with a stoic German man is often a very passionate relationship.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

We also talked anbout his hobbies, his family, he told me about his childhood. Then we joked about world wars and how his great grandpa fought for Germany and mine for the Soviets. Then he said “I once found the strangest thing in his room - guns!”
I said “Ugh. I’ve found stranger things in my great grandpa’s.”
He asked “what?” And me being silly, told him I found cards of naked women but kept it as a secret being so shocked and that I wished I had found the gun 😂😂😂 “
He said I should have kept them and I rolled my eyes!

[Grond21]

Wow, that is a good set of repartee!

I'm with you though, I would much rather the guns than naked women cards

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Oh and we were joking that I gained 3 kg on my trip back to my country because of delicious food and I bought a home treadmill immediately, he said “But you look so skinny already” and then he touched my belly and said “Oh yeah, I can see that. How many months pregnant are you?” 😂😂😂 I told him “You must have been a very annoying brother to your older sister growing up.” Then I touched his belly too and told him “You’re not any less fat either!”
Were we too friendly and childish? 🙈 We laughed, but I am overthinking everything.

[Grond21]

You crossed the physical boundary with each other, in a teasing way. That is positive!

We all have a little boy or girl in us just wanting to be safe enough to come out an play.

Honestly, from what you have told me, this is all really positive!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Thanks! It does make me feel good! I feel like I should have been more mysterious!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

But now I feel like I did well!

[Grond21]

Good!! I am happy for you!

Being yourself is always, always the best thing

[LC75LC71]

Update: he vanished into thin air!

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope haha, he’s still there talked yesterday night. Just this morning hasn’t appeared haha

[LC75LC71]

Hey where's my like at? It would appear that the freak only comes out at night.

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Nope we talked all day yesterday and at the end I was on a date so I replied him late at night as I came home.

[nekkibarbie]

Yes. That's true.

[loveslongnails]

Who wouldn't? Absolutely.

[Emmabrow]

👀 maybe

[AgentG111]

Yes!