If a guy has no social media but always texts back, is he a mystery?

[Anonymous]

[OneViewpoint]

Why is that mysterious? I'm the same. I have virtually no interest in and no presence on social media. But I use text all the time for business and personal communication. For me text messaging people I know is completely different from wasting time on people I don't know on social media.

[slatyb]

What do you want? If you are hoping for a relationship, you are wasting time with a man who is a mystery.

[queenofcardio]

He's normal. Not everyone has or uses social media.

[bowenw]

Based on the number of questions I see on here about people not replying, I would say he is a mystery.

[Sunnyrjs]

No not really.
He could just not be that interested in it.
I don't use social media platforms a lot to cause I don't find the appeal in it, so maybe he thinks the same way.

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily. Most of my friends don't really use social media nor do I.

[Spencer10]

Having no social media means he is smart.

[Asker]

Why would that mean he is smart?

[Spencer10]

Because most social media is a waste of time. It may be an indication that he values privacy and has better things to do.

[HollyK21]

This is exactly why I don’t care for certain avenues of social media — valuing my privacy, having better things to do🙏

[DryGermanGuy]

I fail to see the mystery. I do the same.

[Anonymous]

He might have an actual life.

[Jeff51]

No. people don't really need social media

[HollyK21]

I don’t think so.

[Asker]

What does it mean?

[HollyK21]

Personally I don’t think it means anything. My fiancé and I don’t have social media, except for things to laugh at or keep up with life, like YouTube and tiktok.

[Asker]

Is it because social media is fake?

[HollyK21]

I commented under what Spencer said, because that basically explains it for me. Maybe one day I’ll set up a Facebook or something but for the past few years I don’t see the point. I have everyone’s contacts that I need or even talk to personally on a day to day. I have all the pictures of me and my loved ones stored safely away, no risk of having people (like some of these weirdos online) stealing my images to use as their own. No bitter, stalking exes, like me and my fiancé both have. Just drama free.

[jahaims]

No lol wtf