Men, how do I ask my partner to try giving me oral sex?

[Anonymous]

There’s this guy I’m dating. We’ve had sex loads of times. I’ve given him oral but he’s never given me oral. I asked him why he said he’s never done it before. He’s a lovely lover and I think if he tried it he’d be very good at it. How can I ask him if he would consider doing it to me? Because I worry if he’s never done it, never contemplated it then he might shut me down with a no.

[Alex-Snow]

Tell him that you do not mind having him practice on you and that you will not mind coaching him a bit. Tell him everyone has to learn sometime. Maybe get naked and physically show him where the clit, lips etc. are and where/how you like to be touched. Is he new to sex before you?

[Asker]

He knows where the clit is, when he rubs me he specifically touches it. He isn’t new to sex but I think I’m a lot more experienced than he is in terms of oral or positions.

[bowenw]

Watch some videos together of what you want him to try so he can see for himself that it isn't complicated. If he is reluctant, suggest he try it for 10 seconds to start. If he is a germophobe, try it right after showering.

[bowenw]

Thank you for the MHO. 😊
I hope you get what you want. Feel free to DM anytime.

[spartan55]

He is a liar. His excuse sucks even if it's legit. Suspend his blowjobs for now.

[Asker]

That’s what I think. He claims he isn’t lying though but my gut tells me otherwise. I haven’t gone down on him since he told me.

[spartan55]

Good, stand your ground.

[FunkyMonkee]

Invite him over for dinner, when he walks in, make sure he sees you sliding down the banister naked. When he asks you what you're doing, tell him, "I'm just warming up your dinner."

[DryGermanGuy]

https://youtu.be/zyuS8GcENfQ?si=BY2oDsz7fVLrX1kd

[dudeinohio]

Just directly ask him.

[jahaims]

With words