So, my boyfriend and I are waiting until marriage. This is an idea I had brought up, and he told me he was perfectly fine with waiting until marriage, even though intimacy is important to him. He suggested that we try oral, on each other, but I can’t help but feel like i’m only agreeing with this idea because i’m afraid to make him feel emotionally rejected and neglected. He told me that I shouldn’t do anything just for his pleasure, that he can wait, and he won’t cheat on me. I just can’t help but feel like this isn’t true, that he will eventually cheat on me, because of the lack of sexual action. I’m open to doing soft stuff, like dry humping, but going down on someone isn’t something that ever appealed to me. I think I would be more open to trying it, when we are married. I’m not sure what to do anymore. He always fulfills my needs, I just want to fulfill his needs too.
My boyfriend and I are waiting until marriage, but he requested that we try oral?
