Why is he confident with other girls but so nervous and shy around her?

[Anonymous]

They work together and he has a girlfriend. He has been like this for several months how is he still like this?

[HollyK21]

Realistically there could be several reasons, but I think the one that I assume you’re looking for confirmation about is the route you should be trying to avoid. At the end of the day, he’s in a relationship; which does not equate to him being a good boyfriend, but still he’s taken. So if I were you I wouldn’t want to come on here and potentially be told that he’s got a crush or romantic interest, because what could that feedback possibly do other than to make you overthink more than you already are?


Even if you’re told other things, like he’s shy or socially awkward, what more would that do other than open the door to more questions to have on your mind about a man that isn’t yours? I just wouldn’t concern myself to any extent unless it was impactful. Like if he were creating an uncomfortable work environment for you, then that’s a problem. Otherwise, let the man be who he is and focus on the job at hand. For all we know it could be more about you, your behavior, and him reacting to it, but that’s another story.

[capriVib]

He’s truly in love with her. Guys are usually relaxed around girls they’re not that attracted to, but when they’re around a very attractive woman they genuinely care about, they tend to get tense and nervous.

[Anonymous]

It is hard to say. The more I like a girl, the more nervous I am around her.

[spartan55]

Why does it matter since he has a girlfriend? Dont be gross

[Caurav1997]

Bkoz he did masterbath by imagine her

[Anonymous]

guys are nervous around hot girls