For serious relationships, do men prefer experienced women or virgins?

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For something serious and why?

Finchie40 · Answer

From my experiences with virgin girls’ that I took their V card away , I would go for an experienced girl instead , mainly because virgin girls’ tend to become selfish and want to experience more than just one person once they realize how great sex feels. The 3 virgin girls’ I was with, ended up cheating on me eventually because they wanted to experience more people Instead of just staying committed to one , an experienced girl there is less chances of her cheating in my opinion , because she already experienced others’ and she more than likely wants to settle down. I am not saying every virgin girl is that way , but from my experiences that’s what ended up happening , so I vote for experienced instead lol

OneViewpoint · Answer

Experienced. Not even a contest.

Virgins were fine back when everyone I knew was a virgin. We all stumbled through our teens together figuring it out as we went. But those days are thankfully far behind me. Virgins come with insecurities. They come with timidity. They come with dependency. As an adult, a virgin is like taking care of a large child. I cannot understand why adult men, especially religious freaks, are so hyper focused on virgins. The only thing I can come up with is that it's the men's own childish insecurities about "keeping a woman".

None of that has any appeal for me. Be with me because you want to be. Stay because you want to stay. Or go. Let me know what you want. Don't be afraid to let your freak out. Please have some friends and interests of your own. Show some confidence and independence. That's sexy. That's interesting. That's a challenge. I won't get bored of you in 6 months.,

Mark_Est · Answer

Of course virgins, there are na magic numbers or cooldown periods. Men aren't cucks

No man wants to date a modern woman.

Why would a traditional man want an untraditional woman for a traditional relationship?

Modern dudes will date modern women, but can only offer modern relationships, like flings, one nighties, hookups etc. And occasionally try long term. But since they dont have any values either they too end cheating or being nuts.

You can't have it all. Traditional men offer stability, loyalty, security, honour etc.

Its your own fault if you dont qualify anymore

Shrimpenjoyer · Answer

You don't necessarily have to be either, but if I had the option... I don't know?

Both virgins and non virgins can be retarded.

As long as she is well adjusted, and not a retarded hypocritical bitch like many women are nowadays, it doesn't matter.

But if both are pretty much equally good, I assume it will feel a bit more special with a Virgin.

What about you? What man would you choose?

Maybe_Maybe_not · Answer

In theory, it doesn't really matter to me, what matters is her perceptions of sex instead.

But in practice, due to my age range, virginity is going to sound terribly suspicious lol, especially since there's zero chance I'd be with someone being a virgin for religious reasons. So the closest plausible reason is that she had a nonexistent love life. That would be an extremely rare case, and I'll definitely pay great attention at what explains this situation

SamIam96 · Answer

For me virgins are a red flag. I wonder if they have low interest and why they don't indulge their desires in a safe way. Or, maybe they don't have desires.

Experience is good in all other aspects of life. Why would enjoying and giving pleasure be any different?

genericname85 · Answer

Honestly it doesn't matter if I had these choices. They're both good and each has advantages and disadvantages that are perfectly fine to live with in a long term relationship. However I would prefer either of those things over a person with a high count of previous sexual partners.

Alex-Snow · Answer

Her sexual history is not the most important issue. I look at other qualities such as honesty, personality, trust, sexual chemistry. That said, it does not matter to me whether she is experienced or not. If not I will happily coach the virgin girl and if it is the experienced women perhaps she has some tricks that she can sharre.

lilBigPotato · Answer

Men want a virgin who knows how to fuck like a pornstar 🙄

katiesmuff · Answer

I don't think it is a concern at all for a serious relationship. If your thinking of making your relationship all about sex then you have a lot of disappointments ahead of you.

Oldschool1981 · Answer

By my wife's own estimates, she had more than 300 partners before meeting me, so I would choose experience

Grond21 · Answer

I can't speak for other men, but I always wanted a virgin. I was a virgin when I got married, as was my wife, and we were both happy about that.

Ariesman81Nshiiit · Answer

I'm kinda fucked that way. Sub 5 is ideal. A bit of relationship experience is appreciated without mass trauma.

Iron_Man · Answer

Virgin. You can learn to be good with that one special partner. there’s nothing like being pure and clean

MrChinaski · Answer

I have a controversial opinion on virginity. I don't care, either way.

Dargil · Answer

Someone who has been "broken in" but not much more.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

Virgin for sure because that's the right thing to do! Sex should come after marriage!

AngryCarl3 · Answer

I have nothing against virgins. We all have to start somewhere.

CubaPirate · Answer

Experienced please so we can put our sexual knowledge into good practise

Anonymous · Answer

I think they prefer experienced or at least I hope so.

dudeinohio · Answer

It really didn't matter.

bowenw · Answer

Irrelevant.

abc--123 · Answer

Experience.

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