Why does he want to see me before he goes on vacation? Haven't seen each other in 3 months!

[Anonymous]

I got a text from a friend out of nowhere yesterday and we had a little conversation and he said "Well do you want to hang out with me before I leave Friday?" I had all kinds of thoughts of why he would just leave, he didn't tell me where he was going and didn't tell me because in a text he told me he had to leave home and would text when he got back home. He does text from an iPOD not to mention. Turns out he's going on vacation for a week. I was scared he was leaving for good. I told him how I've missed him and been wondering about him and thinking he forgot about me. I thought he did forget about me with no contact for a month, so I was OK with that. We use to be so close and recently just drifted apart. What's up?

[HenriH]

just ask him when you meet him! what's up? not like he is in an interrogation but because you really are curious what's been happening in his life. Maybe he is planning on meeting somebody while on vacation or he wants to know what you are thinking about him or maybe he has just been busy. What do you want with this guy? what are your feelings for him? friends or more? if so, when the time is right, let him know, don't hold back.

[Asker]

My feelings for him have always been more then friends. I will let him know when the time is right. I did ask him what's up about his vacation. He said he's just going to an event. I hope he isn't trying to go meet anyone, after all I'm the only girl he will hang out with lol!