Are scruffy, always-messy girls actually unattractive to guys?

[bubbles328]

No matter what I do I just cannot stay clean! I’ve been in a self care journey. Got my hair done, grown my nails and had a manicure and got a new skin regime. I work out and I’ve got a decent build. I get up every morning and leave the house looking great. By lunch my hairs a mess, no matter how much I clean my hands 5 minutes later my nails are dirty. I normally have some tree or hay in my hair. I’ve stained my clothes and now mainly wear black to work so nobody notices when I get dirty. I just can’t help it. I’m the same at home. I deep clean the house every week but I use things and it just is never pristine for long. It’s just me I don’t feel I’m self aware like other girls and I’m always doing something that gets me dirty. Is a girl like this unattractive?

[Spencer10]

You know what i find sexy? Confidence. Be yourself. Scruffy can be hot... especially if that means you are doing things with your life rather than just worrying about getting your hair messy.

[molonski2]

I think all that , just Messy , not dirty is pretty much okey..

[slatyb]

I'm skeptical that your self-perception is realistic.

[worldscolide]

Actually yeah. My wife she is an absolute mess. But I love her with all my heart.

[In_Trance]

For every type of girl, there's no end of guys that would bang her

[rebeliouse]

depends on what kind of dirty you are? dm me?

[Alex-Snow]

I was told that opposites attract... go figure